When Looking for Love, Ladies, Go Where the Guys Go
Just back from being Las Vegas, my primary home, where CBS affiliate station, KXTE, The D.A.M. Show features me regularly as their Dating Relationship Expert. It is always an honor and a privilege to be recognized and invited onto television and radio.
A question I hear in all the emails I receive from the singles who subscribe to my quality packed ezine, Connecting with April Braswell is, “April where can I meet more single men?”
Of course, one of my points and ways I concretely help my dating and relationship coaching clients is to retrain their brain to notice, perceive, and value the singles they encounter on a daily basis.
Additionally, yes there are specific actions you can take as single women to stress making a concerted effort to meet more men and feed more men into your life. A former boyfriend whom I am still really good friends with and I were just talking about that this evening over dinner. It’s not like when you were 20 years old in college and guys are abundantly all around precisely where you are all day long. After 30 and certainly after 40 single women who desire a romantic relationship must make a concerted effort and do this consciously to meet more men.
This past weekend in Las Vegas, the legendary Connie Francis was in town and gave 2 performance. Yes, the original lady who sweetly serenaded us reminding us, “Where the Boys are” is where we want to be. Hence the cute classic movie of the same name. Ms Francis is a gracious diva and can still belt them out and be lovely with the men.
Inspired by her, I noticed that there are some more special places where the single women can position themselves to meet more men. Of course you all have heard of the classic dating tip of hanging out and working out more at The GYM to meet more people. Indeed, you simply do interact with more people going to the gym and using the facilities.
What about the classes?
So many of the gym fitness classes are the socializing hubs which women adore which make them great places for the marriage minded single guy to target to meet more women.
However, there are some great gym class ideas for women to meet more men and use the Law of Large Number for her advantage.
Which class might that be?
BOXING!
Ladies, protect your manicures. Put your GLOVES on! I am not talking about those gorgeous embroidered and pearl embellished kind of gloves, although of course, I do have a collection of those femmy delights. No, I am talking about boxing gloves.
There are so many men who attend the gym’s boxing classes that you do want to position yourself there to meet them. And hey, while you’re at it, you will increase your own physical fitness. How cool is that?
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
Karina says
December 29, 2010 at 12:21 AMI love all the old movie stars. What a fun photo.
Joy says
December 29, 2010 at 8:31 AMWell Vegas is always a fun place to meet people!
Pam says
December 29, 2010 at 8:57 AMA boxing gym class just might be fun. I lean more towards the spinning classes….
Laura says
January 5, 2011 at 7:05 AMMy .2 cents is that boxing sounds like it could be fun… well but I get your point. Look for where men are and not all the gym classes where the other women are. lol
Evan Yola says
January 8, 2011 at 1:03 AMThat old movie with Connie Francis, isn’t George Hamilton in it also?
Winnah says
January 9, 2011 at 3:58 PMGreetings, possibly this is slightly off topic but in any case, I have been surfing about your dating website and it seems astonishing what a great dating expert you are, April.
Cubah says
January 9, 2011 at 6:14 PMI’ve always heard that after a storm comes a calm. So where is the best place to meet older women do you think?
Marianne Ripson says
January 10, 2011 at 7:13 AMGreat article and right to the point for singles.
Nancy Drumwright says
January 16, 2011 at 9:34 AMConnie Francis is a legend!
Kim Ebenstein says
January 17, 2011 at 8:00 AMSo many great activities in Las Vegas. It’s a great place to socialize and meet guys.
Wanda says
January 17, 2011 at 10:33 PMIts like you read my mind! I keep trying to think of new places to meet guys. It’s such a challenge in NY.
Martina says
January 19, 2011 at 2:20 PMApril, you’ve got a lot of fantastic ideas here for meeting new men. I made a research on the topic and your dating tips are so creative. Thanks
Leanna says
February 9, 2011 at 10:31 AMI love visiting Las Vegas with my girlfriends. There are always cute hunkie guys there and they’re easy to meet!
Randy Ewing says
March 12, 2011 at 1:03 AMI tend towards liking the yoga class. But you’re right, there are only a few guys in those classes…