Dating Tips for Single Women: What Errands Are In Your Schedule This Week?

Dating Tips for Single Women – What’s In Your Schedule This Week?

With Spring in the air, certainly a young woman’s fancy turns to the topic of love and romance.  Often young women will feel the particular urge and inclination in the Springtime to date more and take those extra concerted effort steps and strategy to attract a romantic relationship into her life.  So what are some concerted effort steps to take?

First of all, take out a blank sheet of paper and just start to write down about 15-25 things you will be doing this week, including errands you need to run.  Just do a brain dump of tasks.

1. Go food shopping
2. Drop off dry cleaning
3. Pick up dry cleaning
4. Do Laundry
5. Go to gym 5 days this week (that is 5 tasks, 1 workout visit per task)
6. Get a manicure/pedicure
7. Give self a facial
8. Catch up with girlfriends
9. Fill up gas tank
10. Get car washed

OK, that was just to give a few specifics.  My suggested list here was not exhaustive of all the tasks and errands you will need to do in your life.  Take out your dayplanner or turn on your smart phone.  You are going to schedule each of these errands.  However, because you have a goal of attracting love, you will go through the exercise of shifting your thinking or changing your mental frame to borrow from the hypnosis modality and thinking advantageously.  Ask yourself, “How can I do this task or errand this week to maximize my options for meeting the most people this week?”

Let’s take 2 examples from your list, shall we?

Fill up your gas tank.

Get your car washed.

Dating Tip – Fill Up Your Gas Tank

Now when you are desiring to be time efficient, you might look for ways to avoid the lines and any interaction with other people.  Which might mean that you aim to fill your gas tank in the middle of the morning, stepping away from the office for a break.  What good will that serve you now with your goal of meeting lots of people and maximizing your dating opportunities?  Instead, now you want to aim to go to the gas station when the most people will be there.  That is often at lunch time during the M-F work week.  Additionally, to provide yourself with the most little opportunities to mingle with others, you will refrain from using the convenience of your debit card.  Instead, be sure to walk into their office and pay in person.

Dating Tip – Get Your Car Washed

In a similar manner as filling up your gas tank, so is getting your car washed.  Rather than being time efficient getting your car washed during the week, instead aim to go with the Law of Large numbers and get your car washed on the weekend.  You can always mill about in the lounge area.  Better still, aim to find a youth group’s Car Wash and use their car washing service.  While you’re waiting for your car to be complete, go ahead and engage the others simply waiting in some brief conversation.

As your continue you will improve massively!

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell
Marriage Minded Dating and Relationship Expert