Top 5 Dating Advice and Tips for Single Women to Get a Guy’s Attention

Top 5 Dating Advice and Tips for Single Women to Get a Guy’s Attention

A lot of single women and single girls ask me for dating tips and advice for how to talk to single guys, how to let the men know they are interested without being too aggressive, and how to get a guy’s attention when you are in public.  Yes, there is enough there for 3 books, and certainly multiple dating expert articles to help singles meet, date, and court.  So, to start with, I will take on the topic of How a Single Woman Can Get a Guy’s Attention.  You want to aim to get his attention in ways, manners and means which are feminine.  You want to express some of your soft receptive energy, still with a 21st century modern twist.

Attention Getting Visually Attractive Woman
Attention Getting Attractive Woman

How To Get a Guy’s Attention Tip #1:  Do Appeal to the Visual

Scientific research repeatedly demonstrates that men are highly visually stimulated.  I am not inculcating for you to wear super plunging necklines to get guys’ attention.  Because if you, do the attention might be a little more than what you really wanted.

How To Get a Guy’s Attention Tip #2:  Do Avoid Being a Prude

Avoid having the air of a nun or a prude.  You are a modern, sensual, woman.  You are classy.  However, neither do I recommend wearing a high starched neckline or worst yes still, a thick turtleneck.  Elle McPherson when she modeled for Victoria’s Secret could wear a turtleneck and make it look enticingly classy sexy.  But, the rest of us mere mortals typically need to wear something a little more alluring, revealing, and suggestive.

How To Get a Guy’s Attention Tip #3:  Do Express Sensual Mystery

However, you do want to embrace that air of mystery to what you are wearing.  Something which suggests your sensuality without removing all mystery.  Leave parts of your figure to be discovered only by a vetted applicant suitor.  You do want to embrace this easy way to get men’s attention and to do so in a classy womanly way.

How To Get a Guy’s Attention Tip #4:  Do Express Relationship Interest

Keep the idea in your mind that you are signally, “I am a single woman, interested and available for a relationship.” That is the message you want to emanate from your feminine essence as you go about you day, groom, self-care, dress, present yourself and approach the world.

How To Get a Guy’s Attention Tip #5:  Do Communicate Worthy of Courtship

By expressing, “interested,” that is not a promise of “YES!” to all who approach you.  You are interested and receptive, and they still need to apply and woo you for the position of your romantic partner.  Men who approach you will receive your feminine interest in their pursuit of you.  And they still must prove themselves worthy of the position to be your boyfriend and potential life partner.  You are worthy of pursuit and courtship.

Now that you have my top 5 dating advice and tips for single women to get a guy’s attention, do come back tomorrow.  Now that you have his attention, what do you do to get him to approach you and for you two to talk?  I will address that with my Top 10 Tips from a Dating Expert for How to Talk with Guys

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

 

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April Braswell

April Braswell is internationally recognized as America's Midlife Dating and Relationship Mentor and the award winning expert columnist at DatingAdvice.com. Bringing over 40 years of Sales and Marketing expertise, April is a the trusted Small Business Consultant and Coach to Leading Executives and Emerging Leaders. Author of best seller, Get Swipe Right. April coaches marriage-minded men and women to find and attract love, your best life partner. Life Love Love relationship. Love after 40 and 50. Photos appear by licenses with iStock. All rights reserved.

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  1. Dress up and have fun sounds like I can do that. What coffee shops do you find best for finding cute guyz? The Starbucks near me has high school students.

  2. April, I’ve always heard that what really matters to guys is just looks. If I learn to dress sexier like models in Cosmo, won’t that just be enough?

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