Ok folks. It is Thursday. Back in college at Smith , we had this fun weekly event Thursday Night Club which was The Official kick off to The Weekend and our fun and busy social lives. I loved it because I’ve always loved to dance. And it was all about dancing, with our friends, and there were some boys there, but it was more low-key. There was 1 townie guy I had just a wee crush on which never developed or went anywhere. But sometimes, I did get to dance with him. Kicking off the weekend!
What about you?
What about your social life this weekend?
Do you have one?
I hear from singles who attend cocktail parties and who feel like as Boomers, aka a Mature Dater, those singles in the After 40 Dating group, that they are functionally invisible.
And the Millenials who are all so busy being each others buddies and the guys IM me through Facebook for HOW to talk to girls and what to say. The single tech guys, you know, all those wonderful white or Indian Single Engineers, surface on Friday night suddenly realizing it’s yet another weekend and they are not having any success with meeting and socializing with beautiful women.
And the men and women over 35 who just haven’t been on a date in so long they are almost giving up that there is anyone out there for them.
Really. There IS hope. and the first thing to do is to take some ACTION.
Tonight is YOUR Thursday Night Club. Don’t worry, I won’t make you go dancing. Now, of course, if you LIKE dancing… that’s another thing.
So, today you are going to TAKE ACTION.
First, is there anyone in your online dating profile whom you have already warmed up and could actually ask out on a date?
If YES, then, by all means, phone them and ask them out.
If the answer is NO, then there are OTHER actions for you to take.
More on that tomorrow.
I want you to take action and do so starting SLOWLY so you build some success momentum.
Happy Dating and Happy Relationships!
April Braswell
Ned says
April 21, 2011 at 8:19 AMI need to get some social plans. Your social ideas a real help for single guys like me.