4 Sure Signs to Tell That Your Boyfriend Truly Cares About You

4 Sure Signals Your Boyfriend Really Cares For You

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If you and your boyfriend have been dating awhile, you might be starting to reflect on your relationship and be wondering to yourself if he truly cares about you.  Dating Relationship expert April Braswell shares with you 4 sure fire signs he cares you can decode and tell for certain your boyfriend genuinely cares for you. Read on to discover the sure signals he sends from his heart demonstrate he truly cares for you.

Sure Sign He Cares #1: Your Boyfriend Treats You Well

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One of the early signs you’ll start to notice and smile to yourself as you see it happen all the time is that your boyfriend treats you well.

Sure, we all have bad days.

But a man who truly cares about you wants to please you.

Did you know that?  It’s one of the core attributes of the male soul.  They desire to please their woman.  Whether it is opening doors for you, getting the check on your dates together, or finding out what kind of candy you like best so he can give you a box occasionally, because of course he thinks you look just great like you are now.

When your boyfriends cares about you, you’ll notice that he habitually treats you really well and smiles happily to himself as he does it because he enjoys doing it.  Treating his lady well gives him masculine pleasure.

Just in case inquiring minds want to know, for me? It’s See’s chocolates, Nuts and Chews.  The 2lb box is ideal! You can have the 2 waste of chocolate pieces of Rum Raisin. Who eats those? Hmm, I think we always sacrifice those…

2019 Update: My fiance? He has discovered that my personally favorite rose is an Azalea Pink. He endeavors to find me a bouquet like that around Valentine’s Day. What’s readily available around then? Red. This year? Even the red rose bouquet he gave me was the closest to that pink he’s been able to find and he made a point to point this out to me, how pink the red was. Why? Because in his love for me, he wants to please me. Bless his heart. He does.

“…A Core Attribute of the Male Soul is men want to please their woman…”

Sure Sign He Cares: Your Boyfriend Actively Seeks Out Spending Time with You In Advance

Another sure sign that your guy cares about you genuinely is you are never left strung along on a Thursday night wondering if the two of you will be going on a date this weekend.  In fact, you will be hearing from him days in advance to earmark time to spend with him.  “We’re going to a movie Saturday night,” you might hear.  Sure, the two of you might then spend the next day or two selecting which movie to go see now as a couple.  But you know for sure that Saturday night the two of you are going on date because you’re a couple now.

Sure Sign He Cares: Your Boyfriend Aims to take over your whole weekend to spend it with him

Not only are you already certain from his specific words and actions in advance that the two of you are going out for a date on Saturday night, but you might also start to notice that he aims to take over significant time your whole weekend, wanting you to spend it with him.  You find that in addition to your Saturday night that he particularly asked you out in advance for that he suggests getting together for something special Sunday afternoon.  And you just know that by getting together Sunday afternoon that the two of you will then likely have dinner together and it will segue well into Sunday night, as well.  Plus, wouldn’t you know it?  He wants to help you with some yard work on Friday.  What time is good for you for him to come over after work to help you with that?  He wants to help you with the heavy work as well.  Sure you’re a modern, capable woman. It’s just he doesn’t want you to be stuck doing all of it yourself when you have him.

Sure Sign He Cares: Your Boyfriend Brings Up Marriage Himself

A guy who truly cares about you and is interested in a long term committed relationship with you will on his own without prompting from you bring up the topic of marriage. Sure, you might talk about your future plans and that someday you want to get married and have children. That’s normal that you’d mention that yourself sometimes.  However, a man who really cares about you, is marriage minded, and is marriage minded about you in particular will himself bring up the topic of marriage with you.  He does this because he wants to show you what his thinking is and to demonstrate that he has honorable intentions where you are concerned.  He does this to prepare you for the day and hour when he will propose marriage to you.  While he wants that particular day to be a romantic surprise to you, he doesn’t want that the whole topic is such a surprise to you that you withhold your consent then so that you can talk out what your marriage relationship will look like. Nope. He’s avoiding that whole problem altogether by his bringing up the topic of marriage with you himself.  He knows precisely the direction he wants your relationship to take and he’s making sure to steer the two of you there himself!

They do this in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s plus. The pace may vary by decade, but these attributes of care are there distinctly. You don’t have to wonder because he can’t help himself. His intentions are obvious and clear like a bad poker face. It’s written all over him in his actions and his words. And did I mention it yet? Yup. He’ll say he loves you first and he means it. His actions up until then will make his words no surprise to you, just a delight. You won’t be left wondering for 9 months of dating if he loves you, oh, but he seems to love you. You won’t need to wonder because he’ll say it and have that cute besotted and sometimes mischievous grin on his face when he says, “I love you.”

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

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April Braswell is internationally recognized as America's Midlife Dating and Relationship Mentor and the award winning expert columnist at DatingAdvice.com. Bringing over 40 years of Sales and Marketing expertise, April is a the trusted Small Business Consultant and Coach to Leading Executives and Emerging Leaders. Author of best seller, Get Swipe Right. April coaches marriage-minded men and women to find and attract love, your best life partner. Life Love Love relationship. Love after 40 and 50. Photos appear by licenses with iStock. All rights reserved.

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  1. So true April! You can definitely feel his love from these signs. That’s how a boy loves and cares for a girl. 🙂

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