San Francisco Dating Secrets

There is a popular single woman myth that it is hard to meet eligible quality straight single men in the San Francisco Bay Area, especially in the City By the Bay itself.  This is so not true, ladies. It’s all about your Dating Mind Set, being open to a loving relationship, and making concerted efforts to meet more men where you live. Indeed, I date a lot and meet a lot of single, attractive, and lovely men here.  You can, too!

[Note: As of August 2013, I accepted becoming a committed midlife couple with my mature man life partner.  So, I am no longer personally dating.  However, all the strategies and tactics which I used and vetted myself as a single woman over 35 and 40+ I share completely with my coaching clients and workshop participants.]

I will share with you a number of the secret resources I regularly leveraged when I lived in San Francisco and met and married my now late husband.:

Read on to discover the first of 3 secret venues to meet quality affluent men in San Francisco….

Classy Female Charm: Flirting with Men

I lived in San Francisco for about 20 years. I ran the gamut of my romantic life there.

Two great organizations to watch if you’re single and dating in your 20s, 30s, and to about your mid 40s (although you never know).

The Guardsmen of San Francisco hosted one of their superb soirees in San Francisco.  As your expert Dating Coach, I keep on the look out for great and unique singles events for you to attend.   Remember, when you are looking for a great life partner and more fulfilling romantic sex, it only takes one.  And you have to get out and about to meet them.

I’m citing some of the better social groups which is helpful for both single women and men. Because the men are interested in dating and marrying quality, intelligent, and kind ladies.

The Guardsmen of San Francisco

Spinsters of San Francisco

Both offer great charity social events where you can meet other wonderful San Francisco Area singles.

Additionally, the San Francisco Arts Scene has 3 active Young Professionals Audience Development clubs:

• The Bravo Club
• Symphonix
• Encore

There is a popular myth that it is hard to meet straight single men in the San Francisco Bay Area.  This is so not true, ladies.  Indeed, I date a lot and meet a lot of single, attractive, and lovely men here.  You can, too!

I will share with you a number of the secret resources I regularly leverage:

4th Fridays with The Guardsmen

Get on the email distribution for the monthly announcement of the venue where the worthy business men’s charitable organization, The Guardsmen, holds their 4th Friday celebration.  The men who attend their events are not all single, but many of them are single executive business men.  Their events are in San Francisco. To do this, just phone their main number and ask to be added to the 4th Friday email list.  It’s as simple as that.  Put a reminder in your calendar NOW for the 4th Friday of the month that you will be attending The Guardsmen’s event.  Look for the email in your email box.  And then ATTEND the event.  You must actually put some action and activity into your calendar to increase the number of men you are meeting so you get more dates, ladies!

Read the Nob Hill Gazette

Regularly check out their social calendar and attend a variety from their selection of events.  www.nobhillgazette.com/calendar.htm

SOCIAL DOMAIN.com

By all means, do sign up for and attend the singles social items they cite.  But PLEASE, in addition, sign up for and attend the Business and Technology events.  There are always more men at these business and tech events.  If they are true tech events for techies, there will be tonnes more men.  Just be kind and gentle so they can approach you.  Be your sweet softest around the techie’s techies.  Think OpenSource and Gaming conferences.  There are many single, successful men at these conferences.  Think programmer and developers.  They are wonderful men who really want and desire long-term committed relationships.  Their social interactive skills just are not always their forte.  So, you need to magnetize them with your feminine sweet soft approachability.  Smile at them sweetly and when they talk with you, admire their masculine intelligence and diligence in work.