Are you a smart and savvy single woman? You are then likely already making some concerted efforts to meet single guys and look your best often. Do you make the most of your time? You’ve got a great job and are super busy, right? So, what are some of the most effective and efficient uses of your time to position yourself well and meet guys?
Seasonality
You want to use what marketers call “Seasonality.” With seasonality, you can make use of the events and locations which are already at the front of people’s minds to your advantage. One of the super cool benefits of taping into seasonality is you do not have to be the hostess and event planner. You do not have to go to great organizational efforts. And you can still benefit.
What are the current events and locations which draw men? Yup, Sports Bars. There is a huge selection of them and you do want to make use of them. Right now in the month of April there are 3 major sports going on: Basketball, Hockey, and Baseball. There has even been the recent NFL draft.
Dating Tip What to Look for in Selecting a Sports Bar – Variety
Look for a variety of sports being played on screen. Even if you are a major fan of one sport, you might really hit it off well with someone who is a fan of another sport. So make sure unless it is the final night of a play off game when the whole bar will be in an uproar, select a bar with multiple screens devoted to multiple sports. Your fun enthusiasm over the basketball game can attract the attention of a guy watching the Stanley Cup playoffs. Your display of enthusiasm gives him his conversation starter with you. He can safely engage you in conversation about basketball and your team, confident he should be able to get a favorable conversational response from you.
Try this out tonight. When you tap into the power of seasonality in your dating life, you position yourself to meet more great guys. And all it takes is one great guy for all your efforts to have been worthwhile. Go ahead and give it a try and then let me know by email or here at my dating blog how things went, OK? And know I’m rooting for your dating success!
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
Ari says
December 16, 2010 at 6:59 PMI’m a sucker for learning new ways to meet and talk w/ beautiful girls. Exceptional job.