3 Romance Feng Shui Tips to Activate Love and Intimacy in Your Bedroom
Discover 3 Secrets of Romance Feng Shui Tips: Activating Attraction in Your Home Environment with Practical Application of Feng Shui
With romance Feng Shui tips Western single women in their forties and fifties in the States and beyond have started to learn the secrets to activating attraction energy to magnetize a mature man over 40 and over 50 year old life mate and get married that Asian cultures have been enjoying for centuries. Feng Shui for romance and love attraction secrets just could be the difference between no dates on Saturday night and your starting to attract men to you in the most comfortable and natural way possible.
Romance Feng Shui tips need not be complicated. Sure, there are rich nuances and detailed Feng Shui Compass School which you can use for maximum effect. However, there are a lot of Feng Shui Love tips you can use easily to get started with unlocking the Feng Shui Secrets for Love and Romance attraction. Using romantic Feng Shui applications should help to create an subtle ambiance which invites others and is especially appealing to men and passion love, romance, and family.
Here’re some starter tips to learn just a few key easy strategies you can implement this month to start inviting your groom into your life for marital bliss at midlife. Using Feng Shui in your home can help you to develop more possible mates to come into your life. When you want to get married, having options among several suitors gives you the best scenario for you to create. Feng Shui helps you to create a world of romantic possibilities in your love life.
#1 Romance Feng Shui Tips in Your Bedroom
Invite Romance with Where You Put Your Bed: Feng Shui of Bed Placement
Where is your bed in your bedroom? Is your bed’s placement cutting off love and romance in your love life? Is the kind of bed you’re sleeping in affecting your love life possibilities inadvertently? Double, Full, and Queen size mattresses are the best. King size beds pose a romantic relationship problem unless you make use of a Feng Shui remedy. If you’ve pushed your bed pushed up against a wall with one side flush to your bedroom wall, you’re cutting off potential love interests with the placement of your bed. The best thing for you to do is to pull your bed away from the wall to invite in a mate easily getting in and out of your bed metaphorically. Don’t just leave your bed pushed up against the wall. Make room for your man in your bedroom, life, and heart.
Romance Feng Shui Tips: What kind of mattress are you sleeping on?
While you’re at it and we’re still in your dreamy bedroom, make sure that you have the head of your bed well-supported. You want to have this part of your bed pressed again a supporting wall. Ideally you want additional dream support with having a headboard attached to your bed. Once your bed allows for a mate, he can feel metaphorically invited into your life, and no longer squeezed out. Let your dreams be filled with romance and mature love, real love.
#2 Romance Feng Shui Tips Practical Advice to Attract a Life Partner
Make some room for him to live there: Invite Your Groom By Making Space for Him
So many ladies have large wardrobes these days, and there seems to be no room whatsoever for anymore clothes in your closet. Well, if you want to attract a husband, then you must make some room for him here, too. Do clear space in your closet so a man could hang up some of his clothes. While you’re clearing wardrobe space for him, also empty half a drawer in your bureau chest of drawers and some room in the bathroom vanity, too.
Be sure to make room to walk all around your bed, from one side to the other to have a balance of masculine and feminine, ying/yang energy. If you have your bed pushed up against the wall on one side, or a chest of drawers too close on one side of your bed to make egress easy to navigate as flow of steps without having to squeeze sideways, then you are literally squeezing the masculine or feminine energy in your bedroom, and metaphorically in the romance sector of your life.
Better to shift and move your bed a few inches further out away from the wall or chest of drawers.
Romance Feng Shui Tips Applied to Bedroom Set Furniture
Additionally, it is best to have pairings both of furniture and accessories in your bedroom. Not all the furniture need be of the same bedroom set from the same chain furniture store. But the pieces should balance each other and be of the same scale and ratio to each other, for example in there being a pair of bedside tables. They don’t have to be matchy matchy. The do need to be in balance so that one side, namely one of you, isn’t favored over the other.
Romance Feng Shui Tips Applied to Bedroom Decor
Flames and candles are wonderful to burn, attended of course, in your bedroom, to bring in the subtle burning embers of romantic passion. Again, you can have different kinds of candles on each of the two tables. Ideally, have few masculine pillar candles and some shorter more feminine candles as well. Make sure, ladies, that while your bedroom is feminine that it is not too exclusively girlie to repel healthy adult male energy. If your room is too girlishly young, you won’t attract an adult man. It’s like you’re a filly not a mare.
Much of Chinese Feng Shui books will suggest traditional Feng Shui animal pair figurines for your bedroom, your romance sector. And those can be fine. Just, they are also meant to mean something to you and your cultural background. So, I do have a figurine pair of a male and female, but they are of sweet youth angels, a boy and a girl, with his leaning in to kiss her. It communicates the sweetness of romance to me in a shorthand and keeps that sweetness of love reminded to us in our bedroom, to be sweet to each other. Because, like every other normal couple, we squabble at times. The cute angels serve as a reminder to be sweet to each other and to remember the sweet foundation of our love for each other.
Not everyone will be moved by a pair of Mandarin Ducks. Find some pairings which convey some of that classiness of my angel figurines without being too comically cute. Tender. Sweet. Anything too overtly passionate could compete with you two. I also have a simple postcard of Klimt’s “The Kiss,” for that. It’s small. It’s a symbol and the scale could never rival us. Art speaks to both of us, Klimt in particular. You don’t want anything of the scale or solo man or woman as David or the Odalisque. Solo figures either eclipse one of you, or send the message of remaining solo.
Feng Shui for Love and Romance Tip in Your Bedroom Tip #3
Remove Clutter your living room: Inviting Your Man with Feng Shui
Your living room space affects your romantic life as well as does your bedroom, even though you might not have been thinking it that way. Tidy up and remove the clutter, clean up, and shift things around in your living room so when a date comes over to drop you home, there is room for him here in your life. Make sure your home space is feminine, of course. However, you do want to have just a few masculine elements in this room as well. You want to bring in just a little bit of the “Yang” energy here. You might do this by having a few images of men from your family or heroic manly figures you admire. Just make sure this room is not too frilly that a man would find it off putting for him to sit for awhile and court you on your couch.
You want to have images of other men only in your living room and not in your bedroom where they are always in some bizarre competition with each other. The masculine elements in your bedroom should be metaphoric like in the Pillar candles or non-person specific in the angel or animal figurines.
Start with just these few easy-to-implement Feng Shui for love and romance changes in your home, and just watch for the shift in your love life this month!
Which one is your favorite, ladies?
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
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