Have you finished up your Christmas shopping? Wrapped up everything for you Holidays shopping and presents wrapping?
Me neither.
Perhaps as a single man or a single woman, you were hoping Santa Claus would bring you a new love this year? A girlfriend or boyfriend.
And to help Santa along, maybe you’ve tried out the Online Dating Sites and leveraged the Internet Personals in your greater metro area.
Good job.
If you are SINGLE and I mean REALLY single, no BF or GF where you may not even yet have mutually negotiated or discussed exclusivity, where you are single single single.
Then relax.
You are OFF the Hook for the PRESSURES of New Years Eve
In the 1980s movie “When Harry Met Sally,” Harry and Sally had an ongoing agreement to be each other’s DATE if they were both that dreaded New York city status – Single. Because they didn’t want to be pitied and go, gasp, stag to the events that night.
Well, it’s too late. If you are NOT coupled up by NOW, Mid-December, it AINT agonna happen in 2 wks. So just breath and relax.
About BECOMING a couple in 2 weeks.
HOWEVER
As a Dating Expert, what I DO recommend is, find some event to attend that evening which is GEARED towards singles.
One lady with whom I consult, she met her beau now of 1 year on New Years Eve at a single soiree in San Francisco.
She lives 35 miles away.
You see her stellar example?
She STRETCHED herself.
She went a little outside of her typical comfort zone.
What about you?
How could you stretch yourself to attend SOMETHING this New Years Eve?
ME? I will be flying across the country. I will be attending a dance. damn I am SURE going to have FUN.
And, yes, there WILL be flirting! (you’re surprised, right? lol!)
I will be PRACTICING my dating skill sets and communications skills AND sowing. ya nevah know!
What about you?
DO get out there!
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
call of duty says
July 19, 2011 at 12:31 AMThanks for writing this. It was enjoyable to read.
Bert H says
September 13, 2011 at 7:48 PMApril, you are the best singles guys dating expert if you advise us to relax. I see so many singles fretting over New Years Eve.