Remember the old classic Hollywood Judy Holliday Movie, “Born Yesterday?” Melanie Griffith did a remake version of it in the 1990s. Well this woman at the internet matchmaking sites? In her dating profile is is ready to “Wed Yesterday!”
Ready ready ready
Talk about giving off that shotgun wedding sort of feeling.
If were a lesbian, I could use the 1990s joke of what does the modern lesbian bring with her on a first date? A U-Haul!
This woman is ready and raring to go. Back in college this type of woman approached every weekend party with the hyper pressured expectation that she had to meet “The One” this weekend and at this party.
Talk about pressure and undue expectations! Where is the room to flirt, to enjoy the allure, and to slowly reveal and unveil the mystery of a unique individual person?
When she is in her early 20s and talks about marriage and wanting a family somewhat, you know, you feel ok, because you know she’s not planning on that next week with you. However, the single woman over the age of 31 years old who talks a lot about marriage, family, and wanting kids right there in her her internet dating personals profile kinda gives you the creeps, doesn’t it? Yeah, most women, we do value family and want children. And hello with a particular man. Not just as this sort of item to pick up in the family size pack the next time we wisk through a shopping adventure at CostCo!
Red Flags in her dating profile?
Her secondary profile photos include her as a bridemaid at her friends weddings. She mentions she is doing online dating because she finds it hard to meet single men available for a long-term relationship (LTR) because all her girlfriends are married. She cites that her last date attending her college roommate’s nuptials.
Unless she is over 55 years old, beyond when she will be having children herself because of biological obstacles, then just simply RUN! if she mentions how much she loves and adores spending time with, baking for, and spoiling her nieces and nephews.
What is so unfortunate is that this woman is typically beautiful, a great person, and actually quite smart. Except for when it comes to drafting her online dating profile herself. She hasn’t learned what actually appeals to men and doesn’t demonstrate her understanding of what attracts men to women. She’s best served by tapping on the brakes a bit and working with a professional dating profile writing so she puts her best self forward, and nothing less!
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John Moulder says
June 13, 2011 at 4:22 PMI wonder why people are leaving it so late in searching for a mate ? Seems like they believe , having a partner early in life stops them having real fun . Whatever that means .
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June 13, 2011 at 11:04 PMApril, I like your article on what a womans profile really means. This is great material to determine what women to date.
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Kevin Bettencourt says
June 14, 2011 at 2:35 PMWow, I think I would take the high maintenance girl over this one. And of course you are right. She’s probably a great person that just doesn’t know what she’s doing. She should seek your help immediately!!!
Bryan says
June 14, 2011 at 5:32 PMApril, you are the expert people need to go to in order to understand the complexity of internet dating….
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Dewayne Chriswell says
June 15, 2011 at 3:26 AMAre these the same gals who sign up for the prison/life-partner program? One week pen pals, next month, prison bride… It never ceases to amaze me just how these people get hooked up in the first place. Please don’t get me wrong, I know the guys out there can be just as bad. It’s a mess, thanks for providing a clear guide to interpret the wrong signals…
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Clare Delaney says
June 15, 2011 at 5:08 AMObivously a lot of people need help with writing their profiles. Just as well you’re here!
Thanks for helping us to understand what those profiles REALLY mean!
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Sonya Lenzo says
June 16, 2011 at 7:12 AMApril,lets see, they could get a little help from you before they post their first profile……or spend thousands in therapy later….hmmmm…
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Dany says
June 18, 2011 at 2:31 AMApril you really are the dating expert. I like how you poke fun at us in a poorly writtern profile. Thank you for the post and red flags of the girls to steer clear of online.
Jay says
June 18, 2011 at 11:08 AMHey April. Yeah, a lot of the girls from foreign countries can be like that, too. Like their bags are packed and ready for you to marry them asap. Marriage is for a long time and divorce is expensive. Better to choose cautiously.