Memorial Day 2009 – Prayer and Thanksgiving
Well, I thought I would coach some more about dating and helping single boomers out. And then I just decided that the Observance of Memorial Day was too important. Indeed the Baby Boomer generation to whom I focus so much of my services has been so deeply impacted by war, the Vietnam War predominately that I simply had to devote today’s blog post to it.
Now mind you, it is not Remembrance Day. As I recall the history of Memorial Day was that when it became a Federal holiday, the Confederate War was still not too distant a memory. Memorial Day is specifically to honor those who gave their lives ON FOREIGN soils. Not here. Many Americans after 9/11 will still honor those who gave them here, and I do honor all of you who put your lives on the line to protect this great country on domestic as well as foreign soil. I honor you.
I’m including the Confederate Soldier’s Prayer because I always thought it beautiful. And perhaps because my late husband Jim was a Southern man.
It remains a pertinent tribute for every kind of soldier as we remember all who gave all.
It’s been years since I’ve seen a Memorial Day parade. I remember them as a little girl and loved them, although then I really had no comprehension of what they truly meant. Wish we had more of them still.
Confederate Soldier’s Prayer
I asked God for strength, that I might achieve,
I was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey.
I asked God for health, that I might do greater things,
I was given infirmity, that I might do better things.
I asked for riches, that I might be happy,
I was given poverty, that I might be wise.
I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men,
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God.
I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life,
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things.
I got nothing that I asked for
– but everything I had hoped for.
Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered.
I am among men, most richly blessed.
Found on the body of a Southern soldier
1861-1865
Shower the people you love with love.
Show them the way that you feel.
Things will work out much better if you only will.
Thank you James Taylor for that perennially sage advice.
God bless. America and other countries as well. 🙂
April Braswell
Pam Schulz says
May 25, 2009 at 5:48 PMThank you for this moving tribute to those who have given their all so that we can live peacefully and in freedom. May their sacrifice – and that of their families – never be in vain.
This poem is a favorite of mine. A friend actually wrote out the whole thing in my high school (senior) year book. I’ve often reread the words over the years and still continue to find them powerful and moving.
Pam
Bob Kaufer says
May 25, 2009 at 6:42 PMThank you April
Bob Kaufer
Christian Haller says
May 25, 2009 at 6:58 PMApril, I don’d know if I could have said it any better than you. All of us tend to forget or push this sort of thing out our mind because we don’t wnat to think about it. Thanks.
Christian Haller
Anthony Lemme says
May 25, 2009 at 9:37 PMVery nice. Thanks April.
Anthony
Lynn Lane says
May 26, 2009 at 4:45 AMThanks for all that. And I love the James Taylor touch at the end.
Lynn
Philip Graves says
May 26, 2009 at 7:57 AMI think that there is often a benefit to quiet reflection and being thankful for what has happened in the past.
Thanks April.
Philip Graves
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John Ho says
May 26, 2009 at 9:54 AMApril,
People may forget what we say, but they never forget how we make them feel!
John Ho
JJ Jalopy says
May 26, 2009 at 1:22 PMThanks April. This is a beautiful prayer.
JJ Jalopy.
Darryl Pace says
May 26, 2009 at 3:00 PMApril,
Thank you for that post.
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Duane Cunningham says
May 26, 2009 at 10:01 PMThank You April for sharing
Duane
Steve Chambers says
May 28, 2009 at 9:49 AMThank you for the post.
Steve Chambers, The Sales Expert
Don Shepherd says
May 29, 2009 at 6:43 PMGreat tribute. Southern Boys rock.
Don Shepherd
Lisa McLellan says
June 6, 2009 at 7:53 PMTouching poem. I think I’ve heard it before. I’ll have to read that one to my children. We always observe Memorial day and its true meaning.
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