Over 40 LA Singles Scene: LDS Christian Single Dinner & Dance Event
In Los Angeles of the Southern California singles scene for the After 40 singles can be quite challenging if not really daunting in the face of things. For a single in their 30s, it can seem like there are a plethora of events, locations, and venues for available and looking thirty-somethings singles. The singles pick up and Singles Bar or Dance Club Scene really is C’est Va Sans Dire geared for those singles in the 20, 30s, and really only sort of into your early 40s.
In the movie, “Knocked Up,” the attractive women dolled up for the dance club scene were told by the bouncer doorman in words as kind as possible that they were too old for the scene there. You really want to kick them in the shins at that point. At the same time, the idea is to empower you in your social life, not to be the victim of someone else’s criteria. It’s akin to being more interested in those who are attracted to and love us, not those for whom we hold no interest.
What does that mean for you? What that means for you then is to keep an eye out for, put into your schedule, and do actually attend a variety of events which are specifically targeted for the singles who are over 30 years old, after 40s singles, as well as some of the items for Over Fifty singles. What you must keep in mind is that when you’re 28 years old and single, there will be many many other singles there at the event as well as you. When you’re a over forty years old single or around that age, there may be only a few other singles there in your demographic. However, when what you’re looking for is a serious life partner relationship, that is all that is necessary, isn’t it? You don’t need to have 57 other singles in your demographic to flirt with, do you? Well, it is fun, yes. However, really only 1, 2, or 3 others is all that’s needed. Because the ones who are there are already fairly well self-selecting as being better qualified singles who are more Relationship Ready than the 57 singles at a dance club in your 20s and 30s.
Southern California Mid-Singles Dinner Dance Event
Singles Event Theme: WORLDS WITHOUT ENDS Mid-Singles (27-50) Dinner & Dance
That WORLDS WITHOUT ENDS theme means there is an option to dress up in a costume or at least to dress up and wear a costume accessory. Extraterrestrial (ET) wear. No Masks, please.
Target Singles Age Group: Targeted for singles from 27 years old – 50 years old. (The age frame is not super tightly enforced. If you are a single a year or two on either side, you are generally welcome to attend such LDS Singles events. Please do be fully truly Single, as in not still married, as in Separated or still in the midst of your divorce.)
Southern California Mid-Singles Dinner Dance Event Pertinent Details:
Dance Theme: WORLD WITHOUT END
When: Saturday, April 21, 2012
The dinner starts at 6:30 PM, the whole singles event is from 6:30 PM – 11:30 PM
Dinner: 6:30 PM
Costume Contest: 7:30 PM
Singles Dance Event: 8:00 PM
Where: Yucaipa State Center (LDS Christians terminology for their local church location)
12776-6th Street, Yucaipa, CA
Be sure to attend and bring a friend and make some new ones!
Happy Dating and Relationships!
April Braswell
As seen in “In Touch Weekly” and in Dating for Dummies, 3rd Edition
April Braswell is a Professional Speaker who speaks to singles in Singles Groups and Divorce Recovery Groups as well as at Singles Dating Workshops and Singles Conferences. Hire April to speak at your Singles Event?
Sonya Lenzo says
April 21, 2012 at 9:26 AMKick them in the shins! I like that!Yes, as you get older your options dwindle. Thanks for this suggestion.
Sonya Lenzo
Annie Born says
April 21, 2012 at 10:46 AMThe idea is to empower you!
I love it! You empower everyone who reads this blog, April!
Looking forward to tomorrow!
Lyle R. Johnson says
April 21, 2012 at 5:03 PMGood review of demographic breakdown … age equals quality not quantity (and wear shin-guards).
Jc MacKenzie says
April 21, 2012 at 5:17 PMI’m sure that it was amusing in the film but it must hurt like fire when it happens in real life. Thank you for being there to offer advice and alternatives.
Be Well.
Jc
Margarita @ Body Language Decoding says
April 21, 2012 at 5:56 PMApril,
it would be a good idea to have a virtual party. This way you can have dancing partners from different states. I am far into the future, but you never know,,,
Dan says
April 21, 2012 at 8:17 PMTimes truley have changed – there was a time not too long ago the you couldn’t find the words “christian” and “dance” in the same zip code!
Cherie Miranda says
April 21, 2012 at 10:10 PMI love to see events geared toward singles over 40. Thanks for the info.
Cherie Miranda
Meditation and the Law of Attraction
Michael D Walker says
April 22, 2012 at 1:26 AMYou make a great point about the selective quality those over 40 possess when seeking a serious long term relationship. I think we all get more selective (smarter?) as we learn from previous experiences. Or at least I hope we do 🙂
Michael
Blotto
Kevin Hogan says
April 22, 2012 at 4:21 AMI’m sure that the lack of options is maddening for those out there looking for their single counterpart.
Mark Hogan
Have you ever wanted to learn how to read body language?
Suzanne Laramore says
April 22, 2012 at 6:58 AMIt makes sense to attend events geared toward people in your age group. Many people are suprised to learn that many elderly, in their 70’s and 80’s, are dating also.
Suzanne
Bryan says
April 22, 2012 at 11:43 AMWhat I find funny about the movie is that both women are beautiful…the fact that they would not be allowe in would make me not want to visit that place…
Sales Expert
Read micro expressions says
April 22, 2012 at 11:46 AMApril, Southern California is lucky to have a dating expert like you.
Scott Sylvan Bell
Body language exposed
Now go implement!
Sabrina says
April 22, 2012 at 2:48 PMI loved going to LDS church dances as a teenager and young adult. They were always fun but I don’t remember one ever having a theme. My daughter will be attending what she calls “Fake Mormon Prom” next weekend which is a dance for 16-18 year old girls and boys in the Seattle area.
Sabrina Peterson, NASM CPT, CES
Lyle R. Johnson: The Sales Wizard & Mentor says
April 22, 2012 at 4:55 PMSometimes I end up at inappropriate events because I believe age is a “State of Mind” … and I am out of state.
Jc MacKenzie says
April 22, 2012 at 5:30 PMStopping by the singles event even just to say hello is a good idea.
Have a great week.
Be Well.
Jc
Shane Aric says
April 23, 2012 at 8:38 AMYou seem to find and share so many unique events for singles! How do you do it, April?
The 7 Steps To Amazing Health says
April 23, 2012 at 6:47 PMI agree with Scott, Souther California is extremely lucky to have you as the go to singles and dating expert.
Yours In Health!
G.E. Moon II
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