Have Fun Now While You’re Single!

“Life is a banquet, and most poor suckers are starving to death!” -Auntie Mame

Ladies, if you’ve never seen, it, please do me a favor, and go right now and put the old classic movie, Auntie Mame starring Rosalind Russell into your Netflix queue.  Do this now.  Watch it with your girlfriends for some inspiration.  Then take out a sheet of paper and start writing down NOW what you want to do in your life, sometime.

And then start doing it.

While you are single is the time to go have a wild fabulous time with your girlfriends.  Girls Weekend in Las Vegas Baby!  Go the Symphonix Gala, the Encore! season opening night gala!  You simply may not have the time and inclination once you are married, or married again.

Start deleting items from your LIFE REGRETS list right now.  What do you want to do that you will REGRET not having done later in life?  DO THAT NOW!  Start putting them into your schedule.  Take classes at the Alliance Francais and learn French.  Now go to Paris for a week.  What about Italy or Spain?

Have you been to the Taj Mahal yet?  What about riding a camel?  An elephant?

Something I learned from walking alongside my late husband’s side while he battle cancer was the absolute preciousness of life and time.  Time is the one commodity we cannot replenish in our lives.  Money.  You can lose it and recover.  Just look at the stock market.  But time, what you are allotted is what you have.  That’s it.  You can multiply time.  You can leverage your time.  But we are all dying.  Use that to move what is the most important into your life NOW.  Is a loving relations a top priority for you?  Go look for it, lady.  You deserve to be utterly loved, adored and cherished.  Don’t postpone your joy.  What gives you the most joy in life?  Do that!

I coach men and women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and 60s who are all looking for a romantic partner, a life-long love. That’s great. I’m here for you. And while you’re pursuing that, don’t let the rest of life slip by you because you’re so focused on “getting married.” That’s usually more of an issue for women until about age 42 when the Procreation human driver is still at its prime. I hear more from women in their 50s and 60s who want a life partner, yes, and yet… they want to make sure they are enjoying life in the mean time.

Indeed, while are doing what you find most joyful, you will RADIATE feminine happiness and this is magnetically attractive to men.  I have in incredibly captivating smile.  I get compliments on it all the time.  My SMILE, the reflection of that inner happiness is magnetic for men and for women to me.  Find YOUR joy and you will have such a smile yourself and magnetize people to you as well with your happiness.  That is the BEST magnet to have within you!

April Braswell together with her cousins and two of her three wonderful siblings.