Welcome to my dating advice and tips blog. Feel free to join in the conversation and leave a comment here. Continuing on the topic of Facebook Dating for singles, specifically for singles who live outside of your immediate metro area. Yesterday I addressed the Facebook Distance Dating topic initially and provided you with some warnings about investing a lot of time emailing and conversing on Facebook with singles who it’s unlikely you will meet in person. So with getting the Facebook Distance Dating warnings addressed, let’s get to what I suggest.
What do I recommend? Instead, continue to keep your guard up somewhat. And then in your email ssk them WHEN they will be visiting next.
Single men and women make ephemeral promises of potential travel. However, if you start a correspondence with them and hand out your phone number to them, you might find out weeks later after you have invested hours upon hours of communication exchange, getting your hopes up, and opening your heart to a complete stranger that they have no real intention of traveling there and no actual habitual business travel there.
They are open to the very romantically charged fantasy idea of traveling to your area. They are open to the idea. But right now, it is all still an absolute fantasy.
Do me a favor, please, and avoid this whole heartache and regretful situation which I hear about all the time in the dating coaching and expert work that I do online and at workshops.
What Works?
Don’t give them your phone number until the day they are already in town visiting on business. Once they are in town, then agree to meet for a coffee or a glass of wine at the local wine bar, NOT at their hotel bar. That could be promising and leading to more than you really want to deliver until you two know each other better.
Tomorrow I’ll address the topic of using Facebook to meet and date singles local to your metro area.
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
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Thadison says
November 15, 2010 at 6:47 AMHi April yeah I think it sounds romantic to be approached long distance by a hot single gal but I sounds suspicious on myspace or facebook. better be careful.
Allison Waisuta says
November 16, 2010 at 9:17 PMYeah, it’s good to be safe with meeting online. What do you think of the Social Network movie?
William says
November 21, 2010 at 11:48 AMI absolutely need to frequent this site much more often, information like this is hard to come by. Being safe on Facebook is essential.
Beth Ann says
November 24, 2010 at 3:45 AMhow are you I was fortunate to discover your theme of Facebook safety.
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Carol Williams says
November 26, 2010 at 10:18 PMGood post, thank you. Can you tell me about Facebook dating and meeting cute guys on MySpace?
richard oyunlar says
November 27, 2010 at 7:24 AMwow great! thanks for these great Facebook tips April
Ariel McMindes says
November 30, 2010 at 4:11 AMI find your singles dating tips and advice blog in google. And I will be back next time, April, thanks.
Janice says
November 30, 2010 at 3:43 PMWow, what a fantastic idea! I meeting guys on Facebook easy but confusing. Thank you to you and keep them coming April
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Hillsman says
December 2, 2010 at 6:29 PMOhh very much thanks for the reminders to keep things safe and avoid the singles spam on face book. There’s so much of it.
Harry says
December 6, 2010 at 3:25 AMHi April, yeah I am very unlikely to date someone long distance on facebook. I wouldn’t trust them.
Subliminal Hypnotist Secrets says
April 22, 2011 at 1:30 PMYou need to be careful at Face book for sure.