Christian Dating Tip: Attend the Saturday Evening Singles Ministry Event

As a Christian Single, it varies by where you live, so keep an open mind about worship style and do poke around at the churches and their Singles Ministries around and near you for what they are offering for social and fellowship interaction Saturday evening.

I say “keep an open mind” because sometimes what the offering is might be a worship service of an alternative worship style.  Alternatively, what the Christian Singles Ministry group might be offering a social mixer of some kind, a Christian Singles Ministry’s Game Night.  The point is, and I was just talking on the phone with a guy friend of mine (he is a DOLL heart, sorry ladies, yes he IS cool, and he’s straight and dresses well, but he is already taken, aka as I put it, “Off Market.”), often the EVENT or series of events where we meet out Soul Mate may ITself in some manner not “appear” cool.  However often we get to know the heart and the quality of the person’s heart.  Not that any of us is perfect, mind you.  And I’m not suggesting you look for a Christian Single Soul Mate who is “Perfect.”  Only one who is perfect For You.

Turns out both my buddy and I had over the years been involved in the on the surface events of helping out at Nursing Home ministries and other such community outreach services.  Mind you, both of us are very stylish, good looking, and “cool” looking people.  We couldn’t care less.  We knew that our service didn’t “look” cool.  And we knew that they mattered.  To the people we served.  Not because we were “good looking, “cool” or “stylish” looking.  It was because of the quality of our hearts to care to reach out to them and actually talk  with them, touch and take their hands and connect with them.  We didn’t do it because we’re both hoping others will do that for us when we are there age, although, of course, we both do have that hope.  We didn’t do it because we were auditioning the quality of our hearts to other singles to display our qualifications as a life partner marriage mate.  Although inadvertently we were.  We did it because we really cared.  And guess what?  Yes, others NOTICED.  Observe the heart of others.  Attraction and looks matter, however, the quality of their heart will matter for years to come.

BTW, I’ll let you in on a secret.  Someone who has a beautiful heart… they will look beautiful, too.  They may not be a 1o.  They surely won’t look like a plastic 10.  However they will be beautiful or handsome.  When they smile, you will be just mesmerized by their radiance.  No worries here.  You won’t be “settling” in anyway.

So, what often happens for Christian Singles is that they meet and interact with each other and court and marry because they meet each other and around each other because of OTHER reasons.  What that means for you as a Christian Single is that you need to, PLACE yourself strategically in front of and amongst other Christian Singles.  And you need to allow the spiritual Hand of God to move.  Or not.  Don’t JUST attend Christian Single Ministry activities to meet your Soul Mate and feel like a failure if IT doesn’t happen immediately or ever THERE.  Attend yes for that purpose and because you’re open to the service or the event you’re attending.  Just don’t be so hyper-focused on the event that you don’t perceive the other people and the event you’re attending.

I have interviewed a number of now-married Christian couples who met at a Christians Singles Ministry.  However, yes, they really did have to attend multiple times and over a period of time.

The event served to make them meet at the beginning as well as to connect them informally over a period of time.

They eventually segued to dating and courting outside of the ministry.

It’s just it might not have been OBVIOUS at the very first instance when they met.

Christian Singles Ministry Tips

Your Take Away:

• Do Keep an Open Mind
• Do Attend a Variety of Christian Singles Ministry Events
• Do Attend the Event Several Times
• Don’t Just Go One Time

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

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