The Anatomy of Body Language Flirting for Men: 3 Personal Care Grooming Tips

Body Language Flirting:  Personal Care Men’s Grooming Tips

Body Language Flirting Grooming Tips for Men: Masculine Facial Skin Care, Shaving, and Scent

Body Language Flirting Grooming for Men Tip #1: Shaving and Facial Hair

It varies over time if a man sporting facial hair is in fashion or in style.  In the late 19th century men sported full beards, bushy, brushed, and groomed.  Side burns, handle bar moustaches.  Think Teddy Roosevelt.  With Don Johnson’s groomed and cultivated 4 days of beard growth in the breakthrough TV show Miami Vice influenced men’s style since 1984 when it first aired.  Goatees and shaved heads in the 21st century.

If you have any facial scars from sports injuries, your judicious use of facial hair can camouflage or cover that up.

Just be careful using the cultivated 4 days of growth look.  On Don Johnson, it looked confident, cool, and manly.  In the TV show, Psyche, the shows stylists have Shawn Spencer’s character appear immature and boyish, still too much of a guy, not yet a man to succeed romantically with Officer Juliet O’Hara.  You run the risk of appearing immature, a guy, not a man.  If you’re an actor seeking 20 something roles, that can work to your advantage.  In the realm of singles dating and flirting, that can work to your detriment.  Exercise caution, good personal care grooming, and your razor!

Body Language Flirting Grooming for Men Tip #2: Skincare of Shaving

Most men do shave in the morning.  However, when you have a date in the evening, you are often well served to freshen your grooming before meeting your date.  If you have a particular dark growth of beard, you might want to shave again in the evening pre-date.  Use some of the men’s skin care product line.  When you get of your 5 o’clock shadow you also up your likelihood to get a good night kiss from your date who won’t be risking beard burn from kissing you.  We ladies have delicate facial skin yah know!  And we do enjoy being kissed…

Body Language Flirting Grooming for Men Tip #3: The Secret Weapon of Scent

Lastly, modern straight men now commonly wear an aftershave or cologne.  You do want to be careful to use only a little bit.  Be careful of using a deodorant with one strong scent element and an aftershave in another scent.  You want to smell good.  You don’t want to jeopardize overshadowing and overpowering the touch of feminine perfume your date is wearing.  However, we ladies are sensual creatures.  When you want to appeal to a woman romantically, the more senses you can appeal to at tasteful and tactful levels, the better for YOU.

You appear at your sartorial best when you are freshly showered, shaved and scented.

The thing about citing each of these elements is that the difference between being clean and your most attractive is about bringing these elements together.  The added few points each of your wearing a memorable scent that linger and the jacquard shirts and a monochrome palette for your tie and shirt can be the difference between being just merely average to amazingly attractive, no matter what your facial classical good looks.

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

 

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  1. Well groomed is always a good idea. The Don Johnson look definitely doesn’t work for everyone.

    These are great tips, April!

    Dennis

  2. I have to confess that the 4-day stubble look always looked scruffy to me, and I’m surprised any woman liked the look or feel of it.

    Mark

  3. Great post April! Scent is very important a(s well as dry under the arms)….

    Hmmm…. stubble and groomed beard can look … well… rugged, strong, protector, on vacation… I like clean-shaven best.

  4. Couldn’t agree with you more. It’s a matter of asking what would we want and then delivering it ourselves. Dress well, look good, smell good. So, when do we discuss cologne?
    Christian

  5. Great Posting this is good for men and women both! Personal grooming is very important! When you are out on a date with a woman you want to look good, not like Brad Pitt but still you want to look your best!

  6. Shaving makes it look like you know how to take care of yourself. I don’t mind light hair or a goatee but no beard. Too rough.
    Yours In Health!

    Dr. Wendy M. Schauer, D.C., R.K.C.

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  8. One of the things I hate the most is when men, or women, wear too much cologne. I find that off-putting at best. All those Axe commercials have made things worse for young people too. That stuff is God Awful.

    Steve

  9. You raise a lot of questions in my head about what are the really best grooming tools for men.

  10. I personally rock the 4-day beard. Shave on Monday, grow a little more facial hair each day until Thursday for 4 straight days of different looks, and then rinse and repeat. I find this cycle to complement my appearance the best.

  11. Women do seem to appreciate it when I take the time to shave again in the evening before a date.

  12. Good point. Keeping your facial hair trimmed seems to be better as women do have sensitive skin.

  13. care for men is important, are ideal facial treatments, exercise and good nutrition.

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