The Anatomy of Body Language Flirting for Men – Express Your Masculinity in Your Personal Grooming

Body Language Flirting for Men – Express Your Masculinity in Your Personal Grooming

A man expresses his masculine attractiveness in showing his confidence, his masculine power, his authority, combined with a touch of tempering warmth.  Think of the Yang side of the Yin/Yang symbol.  The White Yang section is tempered with the single dot circle of Black Yin.  So a masculine man is not 100% Yang.  That would be too domineering, overpowering, and dictatorial for women to find attractive and appealing.

The cut of your suit, the cut of your sport jacket, they emphasize the masculine breadth of your shoulders.  Anything you do and wear which emphasizes your shoulders being broad helps to create The Contrast with a woman who naturally has narrower shoulders than a man.  When you create and emphasize The Contrast in nature and appearance between a man and a woman, you create….. Chemistry!  The sizzle that makes it all fun and worthwhile.

When going on a first, second, and third date, I recommend to the single guys that they strive to wear a suit or a sports jacket so they can take advantage of how those accentuate the squareness and breadth of his shoulders.

Even in your casual dress, aim to find casual shirts which have style and interest and panache.  Yes, sport shirts are perfectly acceptable.  But ditch the free ones you got at the technology conferences which the corporate vendors gave away for free.  Instead, start purchasing ones which are in rich colors and high quality fabrics which flatter you.  Avoid putting them in the dryer to keep their colors true longer.

Other elements of personal grooming for men which matter to women:

Body Language Flirting for Men:  Masculine Grooming Women Care About

Studies have shown that women notice 2 things about a man first:

1. The quality and care of his shoes
2. The cleanliness and care of  his finger nails

On a subtle level, those were the attributes of a Wall Street banker.  Men of means were the ones who could afford both the best shoes and to care for them.  They showed that they were white collar workers and gentlemen by their nails being short, groomed, and clean.  These are the subtle ways that women look to see if you are financially stable and well off.

Pursuing this now, you can put the MAN in manicure to care for your hands.

Now, in the modern era, cool and dapper men’s shoes are available at a number of different price points, so you can look intriguing and dapper at any budget.

As for your fingernails.  Aim to keep them clean.  If you’re a blue collar man who works with his hands during the day, well so did the oil tycoons and look where they ended up.  You’re in good company.  Many modern women find the down-to-earth masculinity of blue collar guys very appealing.  She knows you’ll clean them up well and spiff up when you show up to take her on a date.  Go ahead and be yourself with no worries.

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

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