The Anatomy of Body Language Flirting – Ladies Personal Grooming Tips

Singles Dating Advice and Tips for Women: Body Language Flirting – Ladies Personal Grooming Tips

We all read the various fashion magazines, so I won’t be repetitive of so much of what you already know.  When you are looking to attract the attention of men, do wear eye appealing COLORS.  Yes, we blondes look fabulous in Black.  However, do make sure you have plenty of clothes in yummy colors with eye appeal.  Men like to see women wearing COLORS.  Often they are dressed in more dark and somber colors like Navy, Dark Burgundy, Forest Green, and Dark Charcoal Grey.

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Beautiful woman flirting wearing black top

So what can you do to display feminine contrast to them?  Wear COLORS!

In addition to colors, make sure that the textures and fabrics you choose to wear show another layer of CONTRAST with the heavier often crisper fabrics that men typically wear.

 

 

 

  • Silk
  • Silk Charmeuse
  • Silk Chiffon
  • Organza
  • Organdy
  • Lycra
  • Spandex
  • Broadcloth
  • Egyptian Cotton
  • Velvet
  • Velour
  • Angora
  • Cashmere
  • Cashmere Cotton

Next layer of femininity is the pattern of the fabrics.  Florals and Polka Dots are unerringly feminine.

Cut of the clothes:

Aim for body conscious clothes.

  • Princess Seams.
  • Scooped necks
  • Curved soft necklines.
  • Mandarin collars.
  • Peter Pan collars
  • Bust Darts
  • Shaping Seams and Darts
  • Ruching
  • Ruffles
  • Faggoting
  • Pleats
  • Soft Cowl Necks
  • A line skirts
  • Soft flowing Skirts
  • Pleated skirts
  • Tiered skirts
  • Square Dancing style inspired skirts
  • Pencil skirts
  • Kick Pleats
  • Dirndl Skirts
  • Peasant Tops and Peasant Skirts
  • Mexican Style Blouses
  • Crocheted or Hand Loomed Knit Dresses

Go ahead and use the above list as a check list for your wardrobe assessment.  How many of each of these do you have?  Go through your wardrobe.  Start assessing what you have.  Do you only have business woman executive clothes which emphasize your authority and power?  Do your business suits have feminine elements to them?  Shaped skirts?  Kick pleats?  Pleating?  2-5% Lycra for shaping and being body conscious?  Are 100% of your work blouses in an oxford style collar?  Or do any of them feature pleating, a ruffle, draped scarf tie neck, V-necked? While you may not be in the position to race out and update your wardrobe with a complete overhaul this weekend, and besides, who has the time to do so?  Do start to make a concerted effort to weave in body conscious clothes in feminine colors, cuts, and fabrics.

Sometimes what is easiest is to play with feminine colors, cuts, and fabrics more in your casual wear.  You can purchase shaped scooped neck tops with gathers at the bodice in a variety of colors and pair them with bright white clean line jeans and heels and make a wonderful feminine statement on your weekends when you are out and about Doing Your Daily Five.

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

 

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  1. You raise a lot of questions in my head and what I really should wear for a first date. Your dating ideas are excellent and mind provoking, and I will have to think about it a bit more; I will return soon. Your blog is great April.

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  3. Hi April. I agree with you that we need to dress feminine. I rarely hear that kind of advice from other dating experts. Thank you for your candor.

  4. You have a lot of good dating advice here April. What do you think about wearing miniskirts and hi heels?

  5. what a wonderful way to start blogging, April. I really like your tips. They’re fresh.

  6. You made some great points here. For a first date, I tend towards wearing a LBD. From what I’ve searched on the issue seems a lot of women do. What do you think?

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  8. I don’t seen a lot of skirt options at the stores on the manniquins. Where do you suggest shopping for them April?

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