Singles Dating Advice and Tips for Women: Body Language Flirting – Ladies Personal Grooming Tips
We all read the various fashion magazines, so I won’t be repetitive of so much of what you already know. When you are looking to attract the attention of men, do wear eye appealing COLORS. Yes, we blondes look fabulous in Black. However, do make sure you have plenty of clothes in yummy colors with eye appeal. Men like to see women wearing COLORS. Often they are dressed in more dark and somber colors like Navy, Dark Burgundy, Forest Green, and Dark Charcoal Grey.
So what can you do to display feminine contrast to them? Wear COLORS!
In addition to colors, make sure that the textures and fabrics you choose to wear show another layer of CONTRAST with the heavier often crisper fabrics that men typically wear.
- Silk
- Silk Charmeuse
- Silk Chiffon
- Organza
- Organdy
- Lycra
- Spandex
- Broadcloth
- Egyptian Cotton
- Velvet
- Velour
- Angora
- Cashmere
- Cashmere Cotton
Next layer of femininity is the pattern of the fabrics. Florals and Polka Dots are unerringly feminine.
Cut of the clothes:
Aim for body conscious clothes.
- Princess Seams.
- Scooped necks
- Curved soft necklines.
- Mandarin collars.
- Peter Pan collars
- Bust Darts
- Shaping Seams and Darts
- Ruching
- Ruffles
- Faggoting
- Pleats
- Soft Cowl Necks
- A line skirts
- Soft flowing Skirts
- Pleated skirts
- Tiered skirts
- Square Dancing style inspired skirts
- Pencil skirts
- Kick Pleats
- Dirndl Skirts
- Peasant Tops and Peasant Skirts
- Mexican Style Blouses
- Crocheted or Hand Loomed Knit Dresses
Go ahead and use the above list as a check list for your wardrobe assessment. How many of each of these do you have? Go through your wardrobe. Start assessing what you have. Do you only have business woman executive clothes which emphasize your authority and power? Do your business suits have feminine elements to them? Shaped skirts? Kick pleats? Pleating? 2-5% Lycra for shaping and being body conscious? Are 100% of your work blouses in an oxford style collar? Or do any of them feature pleating, a ruffle, draped scarf tie neck, V-necked? While you may not be in the position to race out and update your wardrobe with a complete overhaul this weekend, and besides, who has the time to do so? Do start to make a concerted effort to weave in body conscious clothes in feminine colors, cuts, and fabrics.
Sometimes what is easiest is to play with feminine colors, cuts, and fabrics more in your casual wear. You can purchase shaped scooped neck tops with gathers at the bodice in a variety of colors and pair them with bright white clean line jeans and heels and make a wonderful feminine statement on your weekends when you are out and about Doing Your Daily Five.
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
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Dennis Perry says
October 2, 2010 at 8:18 PMI am not quite sure what all of the terms meant but I do agree with women dressing in colors. Nice grooming, nice clothes in attractive colors that complement skin tone. Now that’s what I’m talking about!
Dennis
Rae & Mark says
October 2, 2010 at 8:38 PMApril,
Like Dennis, many of those terms are beyond my experience, but the word “faggoting” is interesting – in England, faggots are either a type of meatball, or a slang term for a gay man. 🙂
Rae & Mark
Eva Palmer says
October 3, 2010 at 7:56 AMHi April,
I didn’t have a clue of half of the terms you mentioned!
I have to go to my closet and my dictionary to make sure i have or don’t have what you require for a feminine closet!
Thanks for the tips!
Michael D Walker says
October 3, 2010 at 4:28 PMYou sure do have a lot of info packed into this dating tips post, April. I don’t know what most of it means since it’s for the single women this time around, but sounds like good advice to me.
Michael
Dr. Wendy Schauer, D.C., R.K.C. says
October 3, 2010 at 8:15 PMI tend to stick with the same styles of blouses – time to branch out to something else on your list. I am lucky that my skin looks great with jewel tones so I can wear bright colors.
Yours In Health!
Dr. Wendy M. Schauer, D.C., R.K.C.
Steve Chambers says
October 4, 2010 at 6:46 AMFOr dating men women need to wear clothes that look sexy, enhances her attractiveness and communicates “I’m available but not a total slut.” Tough line to walk.
Steve
Bella says
October 4, 2010 at 2:59 PMHi April, how are you! This was a really outstanding tip for single women to look good! I come from Milan where we have great fashion. So many women here know how to dress all the time. I was fortunate that way. Your website in good source of courting tips. Also I obtain much in your Topics really thanks very much. I will come later to learn more from your singles tips.
Karen Van Ness says
October 6, 2010 at 7:36 AMI definitely need to vet my wardrobe against your list! I definitely have more fun with my casual clothes – work clothes are pretty much suits and nice blouses. Thanks for the suggestions.
Karen Van Ness
Edie says
October 18, 2010 at 2:55 PMHi April, good reminders for women for self grooming and dressing well for flirting.
Ruthie says
November 1, 2010 at 10:38 AMI love to get a good mani/pedie! good grooming is importance for a woman’s self confidence!
Edeline says
November 2, 2010 at 9:11 AMThanks april. I’ve read so many style and image tips in women’s fashion magazines. this wraps it up well for why and flirting fun.
Penelope says
November 8, 2010 at 9:42 AMHi April If you could e-mail me with a few suggestions on how women can improve the personal grooming for their flirting, I’d be grateful.
Petulia says
November 9, 2010 at 1:24 AMHi April. Thanks for the grooming tips. Your blog posts are always so helpful. I really enjoy them.
Sophey says
December 16, 2010 at 11:01 PMWearing fun clothes which are sexy and good fabrics make difference how we feel.
Paul says
December 24, 2010 at 8:04 AMI think those dark blue finger nails are extremely sexy.
Sue Presta says
December 24, 2010 at 8:35 AMthank for post reminding us to dress well to get guyz attention.
julie says
December 25, 2010 at 12:28 PMWhat hair style do you think is the best that guys like?
Shirley says
December 26, 2010 at 6:15 AMWhere do I find chiffon blouses? I rarely see them these days, just those stretchy jogging suits…
Jessie says
December 28, 2010 at 10:54 AMI haven’t heard of half these fabrics before. What stores carry these sort items?
Virginia Dragotta says
December 28, 2010 at 11:57 AMthanks good post ideas for what to wear on dates. I keep hearing that women should just wear a tshirt and blue jeans. I think your idea sounds better with real men not guys.