Memorial Day Weekend Dating Tips for Guys: How to Approach a Beautiful Girl By The Pool In Las Vegas

Success Secret Tip For Guys to Succeed with Girls:

Guys, you in particular want to know this for increasing your chances of success with how to approach a girl.

Predominately the best looking girls do enjoy the better amenities of the top hotels on Las Vegas Blvd.  That means, you want to stay at a Strip Hotel so your room gets you into their pool area.  But absolutely you can share a room with your buds like the guys in the military are always doing.

Approaching Girls Poolside in Las Vegas.  Alrighty then.

You are at the best advantage when there is a small crowd at the pool.  You want to leverage the persuasion laws of attraction to your advantage.

When there are only one or two  people, you can actually extremely easily chat and say hello.

In fact, you want to do this to practice and get warmed up.

Do this for about 20 minutes.  A short amount of time, just breaking the ice.  Get warmed up in this particular context.  This allows for a number of short conversations with whoever is there.  But only about 20 maybe 30 minutes because you’re not getting engaged to any of these people.

And then after 30 minutes, well, you weren’t actually going to HANG at the pool just quite yet.  Get up, take your stuff with you and leave the pool area.

Go get a drink at one of the bars.

Do anything to leave the pool area for at least 30 – 60 minutes.  You need to be gone long enough to communicate to the people you just chatted up casually with no further intentions of connection than that that you all are not best buddies now.

If there was a beautiful girl you were actually particularly attracted to and interested in, then go back closer to 30 minutes than 60 minutes.

Still, you’re communicating a casualness of interest here.  After 45-60 minutes have passed, you’ll want to go back poolside.  The idea here was both to communicate that non-chalant air of casuality with those you’ve already spoken to and to allow for sufficient time for a larger crowd to accumulate poolside.

You want to be poolside when there is a small-medium size crowd.

You want to avoid being poolside when there is a super duper packed liked sardines crowd.  While it can be hypnotic and mesmerizing and lead to people doing too much too fast and certainly there is the added affect of the alcohol.  However, you also jeopardize your chances of success with girls by the pool when the crowd is really huge.

Why you might be wondering?

You jeopardize your chances of success with girls when the crowd gets really huge because that triggers our brain going into overwhelm.  And when our brains go into overwhelm we resort to our default behavior settings.  What is our default behavior settings for in our brain:  Protective Behavior.

What will happen then in the behavior of a beautiful girl whose brain has just experienced overwhelm and her default behavior settings have started to trigger to her to go into her Protective Behavior mode?

Resistance and Rejection.

She might even have normally under just even slightly better more advantageous circumstances have found you attractive and appealing to her.  But you won’t even get to get out a first opening sentence or two to her when her automatic default brain setting has kicked over to Protective Behavior – Auto Resistance and Rejection.

Tomorrow I’ll coach you more on what to say to girls and how to talk with them, not like some of those PUA guys.  I want to teach you relationship skills which will work for you now for meeting girls and at the same time dating skills which will serve you well when you’re ready for a lasting relationship. You won’t have burned your bridges with what I’m coaching you on doing.

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell