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Hi AB, I saw some of your additional questions in your question. My advice with clothes and make up is to have it package YOU as your best YOU, never to be someone else. Now there is playing with color and clothes like dress-up when we are kids, to try new things to stretch yourself to express another aspect of you. But always you.
Mascara, while Caucasian, I have a similar eye thing. Experiment with wearing mascara only on your upper lashes. Maybe just a touch of a colored lip gloss? Or a lip stain sort of lip balm? Light make-up. There are compact make-ups out there which are foundation make-up and they are only just a touch “heavier” than wearing simply facial powder. If that seems like too much for your personal style, then experiment with using just a face powder compact and use it in the T-Zone, across your forehead (pat, pat, pat), your nose (dab, dab just around the tip area), and then, lastly, your chin (pat, pat). You can just use a wee bit of it on your cheeks. That can be very light and just give you a finished look.
If you find over time and playing with it a little that you kinda like the powder make-up and sometimes the compact foundation, then at that time, venture over to the Minerals style of make-up and try it on. You can find something in most Ulta and Sephora stores. Make sure you tell anyone who helps you that you just want a very light look, only Minerals foundation etc. and a lip gloss. If you are feeling a little adventurous, let them show you an eye look for you and just keep reminding them that you don’t want anything heavily made up. Sure, their job is to help you, AND to sell you product, so they will always offer more, just push back a bit, and, also, maybe try a little something.
Clothes: jeans and a top can be darling. Find colors that both flatter you and express you. Maybe a touch of color to contrast with how most guys dress. Try things on. You don’t have to make shopping into a lifestyle. Experiment at a store like once a month until you find what you want. If you really want to know more, ping me at my website and I can tell you more. It’s really a whole additional question than what you originally asked about how to interact with cute Peets guy. Happy to address that more later.
Does that help?
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April
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