3 Senior Singles Online Dating Profile Tips: Avoiding Being Day Old Bread Stale Internet Personals Ads Profile
Senior Singles Internet Dating Profile Tips: Avoiding the Day Old Bread Stale Website Profile
All too many of the Senior singles seeking love online will often rush too quickly to toss an internet personals ad profile up rapidly just to get something published all in one single afternoon. Maybe you’ve been meaning to get online for awhile and didn’t. Perhaps your kids or friends have been pestering your to post a bio and try out the dating apps for mature singles over 50.
So your finally got around to putting something up at the dating sites to fill in the profile information, but you weren’t really prepared in advance. You just filled things in to piece together your profile without doing any advanced planning.
Then both mature single women and men in their 50s and 60s will message over 10 single seniors they find attractive. Are you one of those who over-approached too many singles right away before you learned how to break ice and get a conversation going, message and successfully navigate the email exchange to get to the first date?
Then the worst thing happens.What’s the worst that could happen, after all?
Maybe this is your story, yes?
After having approached all of the singles they found attractive right out of the gate at the dating site, the dreaded dating outcome happens.
Read on to discover their dreaded dating dilemma, and what you can do to avoid it!
Does any of this sound familiar to you and what you’re experiencing with online dating at the mature singles sites?
Senior Singles Sites Day Old Bread Stale Profile Syndrome Problem #1
What is the dreaded outcome these mature singles experience?
No one responds.
If no one responds, how does that make you feel? Do you feel attractive? Alluring? Like a Stud?
Nope, am I right?
Then you feel dejected and rejected, sure that you are now unattractive to the opposite sex once your over 50. Both men and women in their 50s plus confess feeling this way to me. Sure, they may put a brave face on to the outward facing words about what a man and what a woman they are. But inside, their feeling just awful and secretly wondering, “What am I doing wrong?”
I’ve had midlife single coaching clients men and women who do this and feel awful.
They leave the same singles website profile up for months on end, all with no response. When you do that, it’s like it’s gathering dust. It has no pizazz and attracts no-one, which just reinforces your secret fearful feelings of unattractiveness. I don’t mean that you aren’t good looking. It’s feeling you possess sex-appeal and attraction abilities to magnetize a life partner, or at least some great dates to you.
The author of A Round Heeled Woman was just looking for a lot of sex by the time she hit 67. I’m here to equip you and help you to find Love, complete with physical intimacy. Don’t just settle for only the physical when you both can and yearn for so much more complete intimacy. It truly is quite possible in your 50s, in your 60s and more.
What Can You Do to Improve Your Midlife Dating Profile:
Here’s what I have them do to improve their dating websites profiles. You’ll discover how to improve your computer dating website profile and garner more responses from sincere senior singles.
Don’t give up! There is something constructive and comfortable you can do about your singles dating social life after 50 years old. Read on here to learn how.
Senior Singles Sites Day Old Bread Stale Profile Syndrome Problem #2: Top 4 Problems of Too Quickly Published Profiles
If you popped your singles dating site profile up all too quickly, publishing it on a whim without putting some time and effort into it in advance of hitting that Publish button, it more than likely is guilty of being:
- too shallow
- too provocative
- too dull
- too generic
And then because you wrote all the single seniors you were interested in all at once right out of the gate in your first 10 days online, and no one responded, all the singles you were attracted to and considered for a first date have already looked at your dreadful dating profile and rejected you. To reapproach them now, you’ll have to seriously overhaul your internet personals ad so they either don’t recognize you or where your message fesses up to your mistakes and learned lessons.
What about those Old Problem Profile Photographs?
One thing you will definitely need to do to refresh your Midlife Dating profile before you approach those Potential Dates anew and all over again is to update your profile photos. Having great and current profile pictures can make or break you in the current world of online dating and singles apps. In fact, if your potential dates are viewing your profile digitally on their Smart Phones via the singles apps, the age, look, and appearance of your profiles photos matters all the more so than when your possible mate views your dating bio via their computer where they can see literally spatially see and envision a fuller picture of you than old photos can convey. Having a handful of current pictures in your profile can freshen your image and help you to engender romantic interest leading to more responses and getting to the First Date.
Senior Singles Sites Day Old Bread Stale Profile Syndrome Problem #3: Why Stale Dated Profiles Create a Problem
Leaving your midlife dating profile up online without any changes at the singles website leaves the other searchers wondering if you are stuck in a time warp. Your computer dating site profile becomes like day old stale bread. Will you put yourself in the marked down stale dated bread bin, willing to date all takers?
Of course you won’t.
If you shouldn’t just leave the same dating profile posted online or at the midlife dating singles apps, then what should a mature single do to take that stale edge off of the internet personals ad? And how can you best do that?
Check back tomorrow to learn how to breath fresh new life in your senior singles dating profile.
Happy Dating and Relationships!
April Braswell
As seen in “In Touch Weekly” and in Dating for Dummies, 3rd Edition
April Braswell is a Professional Speaker who speaks to singles in Singles Groups and Divorce Recovery Groups as well as at Singles Dating Workshops and Singles Conferences. Hire April to speak at your Singles Event?
Stacey says
December 2, 2014 at 12:45 PMI think it’s so true how I wonder about how serious he must be if I see things in his profile more than a year ago.