The 19 year men who email and write me wanting dating tips and advise for where and how to meet girls, a lot of them are working guys. They hold down a job already. Of course, a lot of the 18-25 year olds in college right now are working a full or part-time job. So, they all have pretty full schedules already. Now, if you are working full-time, and usually a full-time job these days really means about a 10 hour day plus likely some commute time. And plenty of people are working weekend hours as well, so what was once a great social time to meet new people is not always available to you. Certainly, for the singles in Las Vegas, we all are very used to the particular and odd challenge of people’s 24 hour Resort City schedules. In resort cities like Las Vegas, a lot of the Las Vegan locals have non-traditional work hours. Namely, not everyone is working 9-5, Monday – Friday with Saturday and Sunday off. So, the local have their work cut out for them to make concerted efforts and orchestrate their time for meeting out peer-group singles.
So, it’s not like you have a lot of time to locate and meet girls. When you don’t have a lot of time, that means you must be efficient with your hunting and hanging time. Where do the 18, 19, and 20 year old single girls like to go? Besides the shopping malls, community college campuses, food courts, and Starbucks?
Young girls go to the gym and women like the classes at the gym. Yes, a lot of the men would rather pour blood and sweat from their pores than sit through a Pilates or yoga class. However, guess where the girls are? Yup, they are in the yoga classes! So, round out your fitness routine and make an effort to try some of the classes at your gym and observe which of the classes have the most young women at. And observe which of the classes have the most young women, and the women you are most attracted to. Maybe that will mean a Monday 6 am Pilates class gets added to your routine. Or maybe that will mean you incorporate a Thursdays at 5:30 pm Ashtanga Yoga class and strengthen your bulking muscles by stretching them.
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
Keri Eagan says
October 28, 2009 at 2:49 AMAnd the guys who go to the yoga class are immediately noted and (subtly) checked out…. good for your flexibilty and state of mind as well.
Keri Eagan
Lisa says
October 28, 2009 at 5:46 AMAgreed yoga men rule. But take it seriously, if they are in there goofing around, it makes them twice as unattractive.
MissMentor
Martin O'Connor says
October 28, 2009 at 6:22 AMGood ideas but I think few can fit it into the schedule. There’s no end to the ideas it seems.
Martin O’Connor
April Braswell says
October 28, 2009 at 12:51 PMHi Keri,
thanks for stopping by my blog and commenting. Indeed, when men do attend the yoga classes, the girls notice. The men look SO fabulous doing the Warrior poses.
April
Martin says
October 28, 2009 at 1:27 PMGym classes are a great place to meet women. Probably helps if you’ve got a body that won’t put them off! Also, as side effects go, keeping fit and healthy is unbeatable.
Martin Wright
Mister P says
October 28, 2009 at 3:27 PMGoing to the gym and gym classes has the double effect of making you more attractive, along with meeting more women. Great advice.
Bert (alter ego- Mister P)
Steve Chambers says
October 28, 2009 at 8:23 PMRoss Jeffries advises men to keep their eyes open and observe where the women hang out. Once you discover this simply make it a point to be there.
Steve
Rob Northrup says
October 29, 2009 at 6:22 AMmore excellent advice for people looking for a relationship. April, you have so many great ideas… it’s a great mindset you have.
Seize the Day,
Rob
John Ho says
October 29, 2009 at 6:59 AMApril,
Ah, yes, find the “thirsty crowd” (in yoga classes) to serve them an irrestible offer (a drink), again & again.
Need to identify the target to get results.
John Ho
Jennifer Battaglino says
October 29, 2009 at 8:02 AMI love John’s comment… I feel like this could end up as a documentary on the Discover Channel. And now as we observe the young male spotting the available women in the gym…watch how he moves in slowly so as not to startle them…”
Sorry, I couldn’t help myself.
You are great April!
Jennifer Battaglino
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Lynn Lane says
October 29, 2009 at 11:24 AMApril,
If these guys really want to engage with “Hot Chicks” they should get certified to teach Yoga, Kickboxing or Martial Arts and teach it for the gyms. They’ll have more “Hot Chicks” around than they can shake off!
Lynn Lane->Success Strategies For Life
Vick says
October 30, 2009 at 3:02 PMI think more guys are working out now days anyway. It would be a great place to meet someone new. And think of the sexy body you gain in the process.
Here alot of the 18-20 year ols go to college and work too. It is called make ends meet. I see more of them going out week nights because they work week-ends.
Vicki http://www.bridal-threads.com
Katie says
November 1, 2009 at 7:59 AMPlus you get to check out the girl from head-to-toe before you’ve even had dinner!
😉
Meeting at the gym seems like such a good idea . . .
Katie
JJ Jalopy says
November 3, 2009 at 1:39 PMYES!
Kalpna and I have started doing Yoga classes recently.
What an eye-opener!
A great opportunity for single guys and girls and guys and guys and girls and girls to get together!
Kate McKeon says
November 4, 2009 at 8:10 PMI might need to get myself out of the park at 5a and into the gym at 5p . . . hmmm, ideas, ideas.
Kate
Den Santiez says
November 10, 2009 at 6:24 PMThanks for sharing this cool dating tip.
Den
Darryl Pace says
November 13, 2009 at 2:48 PMHey, April,
Yeah, guys need to realize that stretching (e.g. yoga) is vital for their long term health. So, they may as well join the types of classes you mentioned here. Not only will it be good for them, there will be plenty of women there as well.
Hmm. A question just came to mind. Won’t some of the women think that the guy that comes into the generally female-only classes is some sort of perv or something?
Health, Fitness for Working People — Darryl Pace
Bill says
November 24, 2009 at 7:26 PM@bill – nothing to worry