Internet Dating Personas of Women: She Gives High Maintenance a Bad Name

You’ve seen her online. She wants Entertainment Executive men earning over 250k, Million Dollar Investment Bankers or Venture Capitalists.

She’s never cleaned her own toilet bowl and isn’t about to start now.

This woman spends her days at the day spas getting her hair done daily, facials, skin treatments, and manicures/pedicures.  For her, it’s all about vanity.  Princess Diana also got manicures often, but for her it was quality personal grooming was about being gracious and considerate of others.  This lady, when you see her photos and read her profile, the fact that she is a narcissist is actually pretty clear.

Real Housewives of Orange County is her favorite TV show.

Only eats at the latest hottest Los Angeles restaurants and clubs.  You can read and discern this in her profile like a subtext.

She’s so high maintenance the problem is not that she will cost a lot financially to maintain.

Her problem is she is so narcissistic that she is no FUN whatsoever.

Reed Sayles who married Ginie Polo Sayles of “How to Marry Rich” author fame described himself as a lucky rich man to have landed Ginie.  Why?  Because she was a beautiful, FUN, and engaging life companion.  Yes, certainly she enjoys the finer things in life.

However, also when his industry took a down turn and he lost some of his Net Wealth and likely some of his annual income, she behaved like a wife and not just a gold digger.  She stuck by her husband “in richer and poorer.”

Women at the internet dating sites who only want you to have a boat load of money and spend it on them and their day trips to the spa and high end salons are ultimately boring.

Rich men do want beautiful wives.  They also want fun and somewhat interesting life companions.  They desire women who are know how to take care of themselves and their looks and who can be down to earth in at least 7% of her personality.  Does she have a guilty pleasure yen for home fries and biscuits and gravy?  Or does she make her own 4 alarm chili, aka Man Food.  Does she adore Alpine skiing and yet also just simply love to hike the state parks where she lives once a month?

Her having some of those characteristics and attributes is what keeps her human, approachable, and actually ultimately desirable as a Life Partner Companion.  It keeps her personality about 5% girl, wholesome, and just a wee bit “girl next door.”  A Rich Man wants to feel he got a human being and that she’ll stick by him for the long run.

If she is 100% High Maintenance Only, then he knows the minutes he has any difficulties which are just normally and naturally part of life that she’ll turn into “Shrew Woman.”   Hmmm, that character might turn up in a future installment of the XMen series of films inspired by a Film Producer’s ex-wife, who knows.   And she’d go after him and his assets in a divorce.  He want to have the room to actually love her not just desire her for her charm and beauty.

When you see that she is High Maintenance Woman from her dating profile, steer clear of her and look for a beautiful woman who will also make a wonderful Life Companion.  You’ll be a lot happier and stay out of divorce court, too!

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell