Shy Guy Dating Tips Opening Remarks: The First Sentence Out of Your Mouth, Lobbed to the Table of Women
Shy Guy Help Talking to Beautiful Women in Public
How do you all know each other?
Could be anything. This is a highly Open Ended question. You are not asking a Yes or No response question. So you increase your likelihood to get not only a response, but a response which is longer than 1 word or 1 sentence. At least one of them will likely tell you the mini-version of the story of how they all know each other.
They know each other as roommates. They were sorority sisters in college. 2 of them were freshman roommates. The others joined their social circle over time.
Did you all go to college together?
Same thing. Very open ended. However, this is a Yes or No response question. If they really are NOT interested in talking with you whatsoever, they can respond with, “No.” However, the very fact that they seated themselves centrally at a bar table in the bar area is a body language flirting confidence signal of receptivity and interest in being approached by and meeting men tonight. Just so you know, if they had not wanted to meet others and interact with others, they could have gotten a side table in the restaurant area away from others and the juxtaposition proximity to other social tables. Their table positioning is an OPEN Body Language signal, not closed. So, do be encouraged. If they did say, “No,” try one more sentence with warmth and confidence.
Do you all work together?
This is often a better and more intriguing question than asking every single one of them one by one by one, “What do you do? What is your job? Where do you work?” That would be a bit tedious both for you and for the women. Your extrovert might respond initially and then cue up further sentences to be uttered by another of her girlfriends by her saying what she does and what sort of career she has. And then says, “But Janie works in XYZ industry. Her background is entirely different….. Right Janie?” Like in Tennis, she lobs the conversation ball now into Janie’s court. Janie might not be as extroverted and might not have responded herself immediately. However, when her girlfriends helps her out and the ball is now in her court, she’ll respond and say something about her work and career.
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Scott Sylvan Bell says
October 13, 2010 at 9:15 PMApril, your dating advice is always welcomed and you always have fresh new ideas.
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Michael D Walker says
October 14, 2010 at 12:37 AMI really like your last question the best because it’s too easy for them to say “none of your business” to the first until they get to know you better.
Michael
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Eva Palmer says
October 14, 2010 at 11:47 AMIt’s a great point you give about what the place some single people choose to sit says about their willingness to being approached romantically. Also good questions to have prepared for those single guys who are very shy and never know how to approach girls for dates!
Christian Haller says
October 14, 2010 at 3:36 PMThese are all great questions. Not that you won’t get shot down just from time to time, but that is another issue. My question is, so you ask how they know each other and you get an answer – like we went to school together. So now you have to comment or ask more questions. How does one get the girl to talk and avoid the interogation?
Christian
Dr. Wendy Schauer, D.C., R.K.C. says
October 14, 2010 at 8:39 PMI am shy when it comes to groups and these questions work if you are trying to date or just make conversation.
Yours In Health!
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Dennis Perry says
October 14, 2010 at 10:15 PMGreat dating questions for singles. They allow a little exploration and conversation and clearly express an interest by the one asking the questions.
Dennis Perry
Rae & Mark says
October 14, 2010 at 11:05 PMThe problem for me would not be an opening line, but knowing how best to follow up on it.
Mark
Daniella says
December 17, 2010 at 11:40 AMThis sounds like a fun approach from cute guys on ladies night out.
Juan Escalante says
April 12, 2011 at 10:29 PMYeah approaching a whole tableful of beautiful girls at the same time is like breaking into Fort Knox for a guy. Good suggestions for a shy guy to break into the group.
Lance says
April 21, 2011 at 2:46 PMmore shy and inexperienced guys should listen to you about approaching hot girls and forget the PUA gurus. this is great!
Chas says
April 23, 2011 at 3:21 PMYou give a lot of help and respect to guys wanting to learn what really works to win with women and approaching beautiful girls even in a group. Great job.