Shy Guy Singles Dating Tips Best and Worst Opening Lines to Use with Beautiful Girls
The Best and Worst Opening Lines
I would never recommend you using a Pick Up Line. With the advent of the Seduction and Pick Up guys both writing books and appearing on television, guess what? Much of the pick up line and behavior they teach has been read and seen by a lot of sophisticated single women.
What Does That Means for The Shy Guy?
What that means is, the fish knows you are using fake bait. The marketing effect of that tactic has reached its market saturation point, and it has lost its effectiveness. A number of the tactics they purport to young men in need of some genuinely helpful dating and relationship coaching are now completely worthless and in fact, counter effective. When women see it or hear it, those tactics now actually turn them off! So be really careful.
Some of those “gurus” recommend treating a woman badly and just getting her into bed as fast as possible. That might work for one night of pleasure, but that won’t help you win with girls and learn how to have long-term lasting intimate relationships.
The two behaviors actually counter each other out.
Women who want to marry actually want to be treated well. Men who want to marry feel fulfilled on a masculine level treating women well who in turn express their feminine gratitude, admiration of your manliness, and appreciation of all you do for them.
Game playing can be fun and confidence building for a time. The most attractive single women are quite sophisticated, see right through it, and find that behavior tedious in the long term and will kick you to the curb. Or worst still, simply block you and stop responding to you whatsoever. Leaving you high and dry with no idea of what went wrong. They’ll be off and gone on the arm of the man who treats them preciously, passionately, and like a sparkling gem in his eyes. That man could be you!
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
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Rae & Mark says
October 13, 2010 at 2:45 PMI always thought pick-up lines were cheesy, no matter how apparently “clever” or “witty” they may be.
And they would certainly not be my style.
To me, the only approach is to be yourself, because if the relationship develops, that’s the person she’s going to see, day in and day out.
Mark
Michael D Walker says
October 14, 2010 at 12:44 AMI don’t think I’ve ever seen pick-up lines work.
Better to just be yourself & if they’re not interested, move on until you find someone who is.
Michael
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Christian Haller says
October 14, 2010 at 3:38 PMWell pickup lines can work – if the woman is strongly attracted. But if not, we need to follow your advice.
Christian
Dr. Wendy Schauer, D.C., R.K.C. says
October 14, 2010 at 8:37 PMAre you from Tennessee? Because you are the only 10 I see. Really. Women can see right through these. You need to be real when it comes to dating and relationships!
Yours In Health!
Dr. Wendy M. Schauer, D.C., R.K.C.
Dennis Perry says
October 14, 2010 at 10:18 PMI agree with all the comments above. Be yourself when dating because she is going to see that sooner or later.
I did think the Tennessee line was pretty funny though!
Dennis Perry
Mike Ord says
November 3, 2010 at 4:33 AMI wouldn’t have a clue what to say to a beautiful woman as an opener or even a conversation starter. Given that women have always regarded me as an unappealing minger with a complete personality by-pass…I doubt it’s even worth considering now.
Sammie says
November 9, 2010 at 11:23 PMYour place is valueble for me. Thanks April. This really helps.
Howard Casparian says
November 11, 2010 at 2:40 AMApril these tips are really helpful to me. Your details make all the difference.
Kelsey Zosel says
December 17, 2010 at 7:41 PMYou made certain good points there. I did a search on the subject matter and found many women do agree consent with your blog. Women really do love roses. Does it matter what color do you think?
Stanley says
February 12, 2011 at 6:27 PMNice one dude. Interesting reminder to shy guys. Stop using PUA lines. They are tired and over done. The girls see right through them.
Duncan says
March 2, 2011 at 6:46 AMI’m glad you added your blog remarks that the PUA pick up lines that the beautiful girls just, like whatever you were saying, they didn’t like it. I need to know what does work with women now.
Oscar says
March 2, 2011 at 8:37 PMYeah PUA pick up lines make get radio shows but they don’t work on real women.
Billie Sue Hyslop says
April 11, 2011 at 11:24 PMI think when guys use pick up lines I see right through them. Don’t they know that?
Hannah says
April 18, 2011 at 8:48 PMAmazing that some of the PUA seduction gurus are still around. Do guys really think that works on girls anymore? Don’t they realize we’re onto them. Yeah, be confident. But be yourself or we don’t want to date you guys. I like guys who know who they are and who treat me well. Or they don’t even get my cellie.
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April 21, 2011 at 5:19 AMYou really make it seem so easy with your presentation. Guys are more effective with girls when they smell good and build up their self confidence first using hypnotism.
Covert Hypnotist Secrets says
April 21, 2011 at 7:25 PMGuys using PUA lines is out of date and never worked well.
Neil Dhawan says
April 23, 2011 at 9:46 AMThe idea that pick up line work with beautiful women, so effective of you to point out that they don’t work at all. Your advice is always so effective and practical.
Neil
Shane Cooper says
May 7, 2011 at 8:40 AMMany thanks to you April for making your site so helpful and wonderful for shy single guys like me. it is a challenge to meet hot girls and talk to them but you make it sound so easy
sophy says
May 10, 2011 at 7:04 AMwhy do guys think they need a “line” to talk to girls? if he’s cute i’ll talk to him.