More Dating Tips To Create the Romantic Relationship YOU Want – Do Something Each Day
[Part of the #EasyDatingTips popular dating coach advice blog on the now defunct VOX.com from 2008-2010.]
Yesterday I posted some simple Baby Steps to Change which if you follow them will increase your ability to Create the Romantic Relationship You Want…
Today, I want to give you some MORE Easy Dating Tips to shake up your dating life and help you to get more first dates so you can get a boyfriend fast (or about getting a girlfriend for the single guy readers of my blog) as well as to Keep Your Dating Pipeline Full!
Today is Sunday. The Lord’s Day.
Are you remotely Christian?
If you answered, “No,” that’s cool. This post about getting a boyfriend or get a girlfriends still pertains to you. As a single, put your thinking cap on and read this smart dating tip from a dating and relationship expert and brain storm how you take this suggestion and still use it strategically and concretely in your life to meet more singles today.
When was the last time you went to church?
Are you a member of a certain church?
A certain denomination?
Well, I challenge you to… go somewhere else today!
If you are Baptist, go to a DIFFERENT Baptist church in town.
If you are Baptist, go to a DIFFERENT Baptist church 1 town over…. or 2 or 3 towns over.
If you are Baptist, go to an ENTIRELY DIFFERENT denomination’s church.
- Episcopalian?
- Methodist?
- United Methodist?
- Fundamentalist Baptist?
- Unity Church?
- Unitarian?
- Lutheran?
- Roman Catholic?
- Orthodox?
- Presbyterian?
- Non-denominational?
- Pentacostal?
- Charismatics?
And while you are there, check out the church bulletin.
Do they cite a Singles Fellowship or Singles Ministry?
Do they have a Singles Bible Study?
If you see these things cited, after the service, ask the Pastor, Preacher, Rector, Reverend, or Priest about these groups.
If you DON’T see these things cited, after the service, as the pastor, preacher, Reverend, or Priest about these groups.
Get on the church’s mailing list and email newsletter list.
That way you will hear about their regular meetings as well as any special activities they have.
- Christian Concerts
- Christian Special Events
- Christian Lectures
- Christian Prayer Services
The IDEA is to shift a few degrees outside of your current little world and perspective.
I didn’t suggest if you are Christian on Sunday to go to a Jewish Temple or to attend a Seventh Day Adventist church. Of course not. I would NEVER do that….
Why?
Because they don’t MEET on Sunday! 🙂
Maybe try those NEXT month after you have exhausted the list of churches in town and 1-2 towns over!
Keep rotating churches, attending, meeting new people and investigating their singles activities.
Some go on a monthly Saturday morning hike. That would mean you’ll meet new people AND improve your physical fitness at the same time! Talk about Excellent Time Management!
Happy Dating and Relationship,
April Braswell
Christian Dating & Relationship Expert
As seen in Dating for Dummies, 3rd Edition
Dating Coach Women After 40 and Relationship Expert
Note: My “Easy Dating Tips” blog existed from APR 2008-SEP 2010 on the now defunct blogging site, Vox.com. I have moved quite a lot of those early dating tips blog posts here to my own WP blog at AB.com. I hope you enjoy them and how easy they are to implement and weave into your busy professional lives as After 40 singles. Dating Coach for Women After 40 (and some smart men!) since 2002 when they started asking me right after I was widowed so young in 2001.
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Yann Vernier says
May 15, 2008 at 4:02 AMNot many young people go to church here in the UK. Is it different across the Pond?
Don Shepherd says
September 18, 2009 at 2:39 AMCertainly if you’re Christian this idea would a good way to meet more singles like you. I hope they appreciate all your good ideas April.
Vennie Bollettino says
November 5, 2010 at 12:40 PMHi April, it’s true. Some Christians think that if it is God’s will for them to marry their husband will just pop up in front of them. That’s not what’s in the Bible at all. Good dating tips with sound principles.
Evan says
November 8, 2010 at 9:51 AMChristian dating can really be difficult for singles to meet each other and do Christian courtship.
Howard says
November 8, 2010 at 8:21 PMI like the idea of visiting other churches sometimes.
Kayla Gongora says
November 8, 2010 at 9:40 PMIt agree, it is an excellent idea for single Christians. My church has lots of married older couples and not many young singles like me.
Bertie says
November 9, 2010 at 1:23 AMGreat! Thanks for post. It is true. It’s hard to find quality Christian singles April.
Carrie says
November 9, 2010 at 7:36 PMI love the website tips for finding fellow Christians to date. There aren’t that many single guys in my church. Looking elsewhere sounds good to meet single Chrisitan guys.
Frankie says
November 9, 2010 at 7:42 PMThis looks like a great way for single Christians to find more ways to meet each other like when you’re a member of a small church like me! I can’t wait to try these out.
Christine Steensland says
November 11, 2010 at 2:22 PMWhat do you think about Christians doing missionary dating?
Sonders says
November 11, 2010 at 5:07 PMMy pastor preaches that the right one will come to you with prayer.
Daniella says
December 17, 2010 at 9:09 AMHi April. I don’t understand why the Christian singles don’t just date anyone. What gives there?
Amanda says
February 15, 2011 at 5:50 AMApril do you think going to a Bible study workshop would be a good place to meet single Christian men?
Elizabeth Ebenstein says
February 16, 2011 at 7:06 AMHi April. Yeah, finding the single Christian guys is really a challenge. Should I go to one of those really big churches to find them?
Eva Palmer says
May 7, 2011 at 10:02 AMDating is so different in the US than it is here in Spain, April. I always learn so much about your culture. Going to church is a lovely way to meet singles and friends.
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May 23, 2011 at 3:37 PMThank you for captivating reminder that we need to take action to make things happen that we want in our lives.