The Anatomy of Body Language Flirting Expert Tip on Grooming for Men to Attract Single Women

Dating Advice:  Body Language Flirting Expert Tip on Men’s Grooming for Attracting Women

Whole books have been written about personal grooming and fun reality style television shows launched to help people dress better and look THEIR unique best.  My personal favorite is still the BBC’s Trinny and Susannah in “What Not to Wear.”

For Body Flirting, your level of personal grooming and the quality of self care you give yourself speaks volumes about you to other people.  Your clothes and your grooming speak for you before you even open your mouth.  People with high levels of confidence and self-esteem make a point of giving themselves excellent self care on multiple levels and in dressing well and in an attractive manner which conveys, “I LIKE myself.  I think I am good looking and attractive.”

MALE GROOMING TO LOOK YOUR CONFIDENT BEST

They were colors and fabrics while are eye catching.  They were textures and fabrics which are both appealing to the touch at a tactile level.  Additionally textured fabrics add an element of visual appeal.  You know that shirt has a tactile level to it.  I LOOKS appealing to the touch even if we don’t actually reach out to stroke and touch it.  The most highly confident men wear monochrome ties and shirts in slightly interesting colors like PINK and LILAC and SNOW WHITE and PEACH and BLUE and LEMON YELLOW.  Their ties are intriguing.  And the business shirts they wear aren’t those button down oxfords from prep school.  Instead, their shirts are in the same color as their tie and feature the textured elements of JACQUARD.

Jacquard fabrics were originally known as “white on white” where those intriguing texture elements can be patterns of:

• Stripes
• Geometric Patterns
• Herringbone
• Checks

A man expresses his masculine attractiveness in showing his confidence, his masculine power, his authority, combined with a touch of tempering warmth.  Think of the Yang side of the Yin/Yang symbol.  The White Yang section is tempered with the single dot circle of Black Yin.  So a masculine man is not 100% Yang.  That would be too domineering, overpowering, and dictatorial for women to find attractive and appealing.

The cut of your suit, the cut of your sport jacket, they emphasize the masculine breadth of your shoulders.  Anything you do and wear which emphasizes your shoulders being broad helps to create The Contrast with a woman who naturally has narrower shoulders than a man.  When you create and emphasize The Contrast in nature and appearance between a man and a woman, you create….. Chemistry!  The sizzle that makes it all fun and worthwhile.

When going on a first, second, and third date, I recommend to the single guys that they strive to wear a suit or a sports jacket so they can take advantage of how those accentuate the squareness and breadth of his shoulders.

Even in your casual dress, aim to find casual shirts which have style and interest and panache.  Yes, sport shirts are perfectly acceptable.  But ditch the free ones you got at the technology conferences which the corporate vendors gave away for free.  Instead, start purchasing ones which are in rich colors and high quality fabrics which flatter you.  Avoid putting them in the dryer to keep their colors true longer.

Whatever your budget, start to build a wardrobe which reflects your great personal confidence and attractiveness.

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

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