Coffee Time!
Here it is….
MONDAY.
You’re not inside, are you?
If you’re single, it’s time to get OUT. If you want a romantic relationship, the best way to attract and create one? is, yes, to MEET PEOPLE. So, get out.
Now, I am hearing from a lot of folks who have lost their jobs, etc. I’m serious. I know a lot of unemployed singles. And I think the men in particular then are having a hard time GETTING dates because just like 80% of men are first looking at a woman’s beauty so 80% of women are looking for men to be good providers/protectors.
So, if you’re unemployed, pook. HOW do you display your “good provider” status when you are… unemployed? A lot of it is to switch around your thinking. Now really, you’re being “unemployed,” it’s a temporary status, right? You will be earning money again, right? So talk about the ROLE you typically perform rather than being unemployed. You might also go over to CraigsList and look for some part-time or contract work to have funds coming IN while you are looking for The Right Fit.
Additionally, you might look at landing a sales job where you will be working almost more like a business OWNER rather than an employee.
One of the important and effective techniques and mode of behavior that works REALLY well both in Dating and in JOB HUNTING is to GET OUT. Network. Go grab a coffee. And when you GO grab that coffee, be sure to set appointments with other people in your network. “Hey Bob, let’s grab a coffee together Monday afternoon? Or how about right after work?” Connect with your network.
When we are in the habit of regularly getting together in public with our buddies, we naturally then meet other people around us – talk casually to the person in front and behind you inline at the coffee shop. Go to a DIFFERENT coffee shop – location or store itself – tomorrow and the next time.
Even if you are not a bar rat exactly, strive to sit at the tables in the bar area of a restaurant. They are smaller and closer together and naturally set up for you to bump into – literally – the people at the table next to you. Buy the lady a drink, a glass of wine, and your bill will still be reasonable. Remember: the goal is to MEET MORE PEOPLE.
You can do that, right?
Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
Eva Palmer says
September 30, 2010 at 3:44 AMYou know April? I think we have a different way of going out and doing courtship. We usually always go with friends for coffee. I remmember that when I lived in the States many people go alone to get a coffee…here is almost 95% of the times with friends….But is a good idea specially if you go to an Amercian coffee shop in Spain, there is different!
Cardel Turner ,BBA AA says
October 21, 2010 at 4:42 PMCoffee is a good ice breaker to get to know the person before you really want to take them out to dinner or a movie this is great advice!