Integrity in Dating: Online Dating Profile Photograph Advice PT1
Singles looking for love online will sometimes feel that they are not good enough looking to attract a boyfriend or girlfriend. What is worse is if they feel they are no longer good enough looking to attract a serious relationship at an internet dating site.
When that is the case, what do these discouraged singles do?
Lying With Your Photo At Your Internet Dating Profile Scenario 1: Someone Else
Some singles have actually posted photographs of other singles in their Online Dating Profile. I actually have heard about this from both sides of the equation. Single women email me with their tales of woe. They relate these long detailed stories of having posted a profile online. They had just posted a profile kind of as a lark. They just wanted to look around and poke around and see what and who was there.
And wouldn’t you know it? This always happens. She would find herself starting to email with a cute guy at the dating site. They would email for awhile. And then she and he would start to develop feelings for each other. Now she emails with questions about what should she do now? What can she possibly do? Email him and tell him, “You know, I massively and overtly lied to you from there very start, but I still, I think you’re cute and want to meet you.” Come on. Really? Do you really think he will want to meet you?
I have to say, within this variation, sometimes the woman tells me that she was trepidatious to post her photo online. So what does she do? She jeopardizes the safety a friend of hers. I encounter this scenario more often in women in their 20s and 30s. Perhaps they really aren’t quite ready to date yet and need to get more of a social footing securely under them first with casual friends socializing. Save the internet dating until later.
Another variation on this is where the woman uses a photo of her friend, emails with an attractive man, flirts, exchanges phone numbers, arranges for a first date, shows up and WHAM! You have got to be kidding me? Where could this couple ever possibly work out? What was she thinking? Unfortunately, what it definitely demonstrates is that this is a woman who is not remotely available or ready for a real relationship.
There is another dating profile problem. More often it is evidenced by men and for other reasons. For that, come back tomorrow and more from my series about Integrity in Dating.
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