Today, October 2, is Mahatma Gandhi’s birthday. It is a national holiday, Gandhi Jayanti, in India. And you are perhaps wondering, “What does that have to do with dating and relationships.”
Because you see, although we are list of all those attributes
eye color (will some people only marry someone with blue eyes? I’m wondering about the importance of that one)
ethnic make up
Those all but a list of THINGS.
We have a SPIRITUAL ESSENCE as well. This is not about getting religious or anything. In fact rather far from it. No doctrinal discussions. Part of what draws us, attracts us, magnetizes us to others is the quality of their essence. Their Spirit.
I was just over at wikipedia reading about Gandhi in respect of his birthday for the country India. And I have to say I really loved the homely looking photo of him which was the main photo at his profile there. He had been a good looking man when he was young. Or at least I think he was handsome then. However, really, he got sort of homely looking. Which I think is a really good thing. Because as he aged, he became more lovely. More people came to love him. More also came to hate him and threaten his life. My point being, his genuine self and essence really shown from him. And made him more beautiful in the energy and essence he emitted. And those who loved him, LOVED him for it.
As we allow our real self, our best self to develop, go with our strengths, yes, wear make up, clothes that project a wonderful self-care image of ourselves, while allowing our spirit to project. Those who should find us attractive, are indeed attracted to us because their energy compliments ours.
So, for singles, yes, you are a composite of all of those LISTS of attributes for your dating profile. AND you are a spirit and energy here whom others will be attracted to for the very sake that it is YOU!
So do be YOUR most magnetically attractive and you will attract YOUR Soul Mate. Online and in life.
Happy Dating and Relationships,