One of the joys of dating and relationship building when you are a single over 4o or 5o is that not everything is exactly what you were used to probably last time round that you were single and dating previously.
OK, so maybe you are divorced. First marriage? Second Marriage? what is your are a widow or widower? First of all, I recommend you doing some cleansing and sort of Wall Painting Prep work on yourself first: Divorce and Grief Recovery Seminar
Then on the other note, it will both take longer to meet more single boomers whom you find mesh well with your life now as a potential life partner, and then it takes less time to build the relationship because, well, you already know HOW, than your GenX Single and Millenial Singles peers.
That is the Bad News and the Good News.
In addition, I inculcate for Not Settling.
Now, I don’t mean we don’t all need to work on our compromise and relationship communication skill sets and negotiations. And I am not pressing for seeking for an IDEAL man or woman. But I stress, don’t settle.
Sometimes single Boomers think that there are not that many other singles in their demographic regions. So, like, I have to settle.
How about expanding your regional demographic?
Or looking to a YOUNGER single? And I offer that to both men and women.
WHY NOT? Why NOT you? Why not you being incredibly happy with someone who was a bit… unexpected for you?
Who loves you. Respects you. Cherishes you.
You. Yes, you.
Keep an open mind for where LOVE will come to YOU now. Not 20 years ago. Times have changed. So has your ideal life partner.
Happy Dating and Relationships!