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Shy Guy Top Dating Tip to Meet Beautiful Women: Attend Dance Classes

Shy Guy Top Dating Tip to Meet Beautiful Women:  Attend Dance Classes

Shy Guy Dating Advice and Help to Meet Beautiful Women: Try a Dance Class

The difference with dance classes versus just going to a club is that in a class, the venue has already set thing up for you to socialize, rotate dance partners, and mingle in a low-key manner.  The high ballroom dance classes can be a lot of fun, but a higher preponderance of the people attending are more serious about the dance and focusing on becoming very good at it more than they are on having fun and casually and comfortably meeting people while learning the dance.  You might need to try a few different class venues before you find one which fits your style and needs.

Shy Guy Dating Tip Dance Classes

Shy Guy Dating Tip Dance Classes

Now, I do hear from some of the guys, “Oh, but, April, I don’t dance….” Well that is perfectly fine.  The whole point of going to dance classes is to learn to dance.  You do not already have to be an excellent dancer.  The instructors will teach who what to do to dance.

Do be sure to attend the Beginners sessions of the dance classes.  For a number of the dances like West Coast Swing, East Coast Swing, Salsa, and Argentine Tango, do be sure to stay in the Beginners Group and be sure to master the basics before advancing to the next level of the groups.  In fact, a good rule of thumb habit is to demonstrate to the instructor your proficiency with both the Basic Steps as well as your LEAD for them before you move to the next group.

There are a number of the most basic turns which if you have not truly mastered, when you lead your partner in them in combination with other steps, you can propel your partner literally head on into the other dancers and injure her.

Shy Guy Dating Tip Beautiful Girls Dance Class

Shy Guy Dating Tip Meet Beautiful Girls Dance Class

In a beginners group, women don’t expect you know everything yet.  You have more space to dance and learn.  But by the time you move to the next level, she is starting to rely on your masculine mastery in leading and will simply follow your lead.  Do be careful that you lead is safe for her by first checking all those basic steps with your instructor.  Then follow their advice.  Better to stay in the Beginners Group and extra month and solidify your dancing foundation.  You will become a stronger and better dancer for it!

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell



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{ 10 comments… add one }
  • Rae & Mark October 8, 2010, 11:54 PM

    I actually did suggest dancing lessons to my first girlfriend, although she never let on that she already knew how to dance, which I only found out several years later on.


  • Michael D Walker October 9, 2010, 12:38 PM

    Great way to meet people. I had a lot of fun taking ballroom dancing classes and even though I was not real good at it, people have a lot of sympathy for a beginner in anything and are always willing to help. Especially beautiful women 🙂

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  • Eva Palmer October 9, 2010, 1:34 PM

    Hi April!
    I told you the other day! This is for me the most fun place to meet people! I love dancing and I think that specially for guys who don’t know how to dance is not only a place to meet girls but to learn a new skill!

  • Dr. Wendy Schauer, D.C., R.K.C. October 9, 2010, 8:38 PM

    Even if you don’t have rhythm there most likely is a female in your same shoes. It could be fun.

    Yours In Health!

    Dr. Wendy M. Schauer, D.C., R.K.C.

  • Dennis Perry October 10, 2010, 8:30 PM

    This is great advice. I remember a very long time ago I was trying to get a young lady to go out with me. Turns out she was an instructor at a well-known dance school. She talked me into coming down for a few lessons.

    I may still have 2 left feet on the dance floor but the experience was fun and my wife says I can still bust a good move every now and then!

    Dennis Perry

  • Joe Ebenstein November 10, 2010, 11:09 AM

    This is a really good dating blog April. Thanks for the info. I’ve heard that it’s a good idea for guys to go dancing to meet women. There really are people who got married that way?

  • Barbara Lundburg December 28, 2010, 10:54 AM

    Hi April. I’ve heard it before the singles tip to go to dance classes as a good way to meet other people. Solid reminder from a dating expert.

  • Ned April 21, 2011, 10:18 AM

    I like the idea of meeting women casually like this with no social pressure and anxiety. Is there a dance type that women prefer that is best April? What do you recommend to guys?

  • Res April 10, 2018, 10:14 AM

    Actually women very much expect men to know more than them. No woman is going to date a new dancer in a class unless he’s an outlier in looks, like over 6’ and fit.

  • April Braswell July 7, 2018, 8:04 PM

    Hi Res,

    Thanks for stopping by my blog and chiming in. The dance style being taught can prompt a very different crowd depending on the style. In Contra and Square Dance pretty much across the country, both men and women are very supportive of new dancers. Certainly, on the SF Peninsula in some of the classes, the WCS crowd is very welcoming. However, the East Coast Swing and West Coast Swing crowds can be much haughtier in other geo areas.

    Happy Dating & Relationships,

    April Braswell

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