Answering more questions from single guys and gals about how to meet more eligible and available singles, and then once you meet them, what to do, how to behave, to get to that all important first date.

What a great question.  Learning how to flirt and express your fun body language flirting side is an important romantic relationship skill for both women and men.  It sound like in many ways you are just starting to play with your feminine wiles and your flirtations skills.  So, for right now, keep it simple with your flirtations.  Go ahead.  Give him the admiration every man craves from a woman.

• Do Smile at him,
• Do Batt your eyelashes.
• Do Touch him

When you converse with him, just lighly touch his shoulder and upper arm area and lightly tease and joke with him.   Think to yourself, “I’m expressing my feminine fun side!”

• Do Push your hair behind your ears when you talk with him.  That is a body language flirting preening gesture.  Many men have been told that women who are attracted to them do preen somewhat in front of them.  And it’s true!  We do preen in front of a man to whom we are attracted.  Just like the birds who are looking to attract their mate preen and display their most beautiful plumage, so do women in front of a man whose attention they want to grab!

Also, when you are with him, keep the conversations short, so he is just intrigued by you.  Don’t over do it.  We enhance our personal charisma when we ask the other person engaging questions about themselves, and then Do Listen to their answers!  Smile, nod.  Affirm back what they are saying to you.  “How interesting.  That sounds fascinating!”

Not only will he think you are interested in him and receptive to his romantic advances towards you, he will be interested in YOU!

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell
Dating and Relationship Expert

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