Online Dating Coach Asks, “It’s Thursday, Singles, WHAT are YOUR Social Plans for this weekend?”
Happy Dancing Loving Couple
Ok folks. It is Thursday. Back in college, we had Thursday Night Club which was The Official kick off to The Weekend and our fun and busy social lives.
What about you?
What about your social life this weekend?
Do you have one?
I hear from singles who attend cocktail parties and who feel like as Boomers, aka a Mature Dater, those singles in the After 40 Dating group, that they are functionally invisible.
And the Millenials who are all so busy being each others buddies and the guys IM me through Facebook for HOW to talk to girls and what to say. The single tech guys, you know, all those wonderful white or Indian Single Engineers, surface on Friday night suddenly realizing it’s yet another weekend and they are not having any success with meeting and socializing with beautiful women.
And the men and women over 35 who just haven’t been on a date in so long they are almost giving up that there is anyone out there for them.
Really. There IS hope. and the first thing to do is to take some ACTION.
Tonight is YOUR Thursday Night Club. Don’t worry, I won’t make you go dancing. Now, of course, if you LIKE dancing… that’s another thing.
So, today you are going to TAKE ACTION.
First, is there anyone in your online dating profile whom you have already warmed up and could actually ask out on a date?
If YES, then, by all means, phone them and ask them out.
If the answer is NO, then there are OTHER actions for you to take.
More on that tomorrow.
I want you to take action and do so starting SLOWLY so you build some success momentum.
Happy Dating and Happy Relationships!
April Braswell
Dating Expert and Online Dating Coach
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Wonderful advice!!
When I was a young single guy I used to go through most of my phonebook on at thursday night!
I was shameless!
I like your gentle encouragement April.
I’ve been working with a number of life coaches who are helping people to find a partner. I find it a fascinating area.
JJ Jalopy.
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It’s Spring Break in Georgia and we are heading to Jekyll Island to visit the Georgia coast…
Seize the Day,
Rob
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Pushing to create Dating Momentum(tm) as usual, Miss April – I like it.
Nothing I can confess for this weekend… Seriously, you don’t expect me to share my weekend plans publicly
All the best,
Yann
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Like your blog.
This weekend? My social life will be busy.
Lynn Lane
http://www.Warriorofsuccess.com
Functionally invisible, I like that term.
I am looking forward to reading more of your writing
Bob Kaufer
If you MOVE like the Tin Man, you will THINK like the Scarecrow and FEEL like the Lion
April (a.k.a. THE Online Dating Expert),
Great advice for singles and for anyone that wants to accomplish something — “take action”!
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April, Timely advice. I just finalized my divorce 2 weeks ago! Mark glaciermarketing.wordpress.com
Thanks for the post, I enjoyed it.
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She’s back at it! The number one Romance Coach on the internet is giving away free information in her blog posts! Come and get it singles!
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Hello April, do you find that the internet access is an “action inhibitor”? I see these ads of these attractive young people professing the great and wonderful “action” of curling up with a phone [dating clubs evidently] on a Saturday night. The internet has made personal contact less attractive,, less risky, just easy ? Or am I just out of touch :]
Thanks
JC JC
Hey April,
Now as a guy the one inhibitor to your advice to take action is that age old problem that surfaces in our mind whatever we do “what if she rejects me?”
So how do you prepare yourself for that happening then?
Duane
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April,
The Dating Expert is ack in town! Ain’t you lucky you singles!
Make suer you use April’s service & my Puer Numerology to maximize your chance of success.
Duane,
Rejections? I think dating is just like selling:
What is Selling? Ask Questions!
What’s the most SINGLE important word in selling? NEXT!
I’m sure you’ll find your “perfect” partner before you run out your prospects
John Ho
Understanding Personalities for Better Influence & Persuasion
I have a date with my father for his birthday!
Still love reading your go-getting advice though.
Philip
[Consumer Behaviour Expert]
April -
Boy and I out of it! I never realized there were so many sub-categories of those in the dating world. Your post reminded me of my post-college days when our weekends would official kick off on Thursdays…then Wednesdays…
I’m looking forward to learning all that I don’t know about the dating world.
Pam
Perhaps it sounds serlf-serving, but wearing a SPECTACULAR rhinestone necklace, or any unusual piece of jewelry, is a GREAT way of starting a conversation!!! Even if you are just dressing up a pair of jeans and T-shirt!!!
And yes, April, I have a date tonight!!!
SunnyMarie
Lots of clubs and bars have specials on Thursday night. With the declining work ethic in America Thursday has become a popular night to go out.
Steve
love is in my weekend plans now, April!!!
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good work on the dating tips, April, pls more
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All people deserve wealthy and abundant social life time. Thanks for the reminder to socialize to date. – CT
After the holiday weekend I want to try this out and see how well these work for me. Good tips, April.
Yeah baby, time to get out and meet new people. Don’t just stay at home all weekend long if you’re serious about a love relationship.
Vigorously push yourself out the door over the weekend to meet singles.
perhaps it is your best choice to get out the door for sure once the weekend comes around.
Enjoying the weekend is essential. Singles need to get out and meet people. I agree!
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Hi April. I asked my singles ministry pastor about meeting Christian guys. But he’s 10 years younger than I am. He just doesn’t get it. I want to marry and have children. Where are the single Christian brothers?
I like that you suggest making a plan for the weekend. yawzha!
Making sure you have good weekend plans ahead of time is essential for a good social life.
Good feature dating tips.
Yeah this weekend, it’s time for green beer and fun!
Solid and simple reminder that sounds so on target to do. Singles who actually want to get married do need to make an effort and plan to meet people. Thank you April!
I remember going to dance clubs in college and now we have our regular Girls Night Out to celebrate the end of the week approaching and to keep having fun.
I need to get some social plans. Your social ideas a real help for single guys like me.