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Leverage the Law of Large Numbers for Meeting Other Singles

As I’m working on writing my dating book after years of writing and providing Dating Tips to single men and single women internationally, here it is SPRING time and it is time to get outdoors and leverage the Law of Large numbers for meeting other singles.

Let me ask you a question.

What sort of single man or single woman are you attracted to?

Do you find Asian American women curl your toes?

Do you find African-American brothas make you pant?

Dating and Relationship Expert, April Braswell, Luxor, VegasIn the words of Real Estate specialists, location, location, location.  For more than 15 years I have been helping single men and women online to remember to POSITION themselves where their TIP (Target Ideal Prospects) like to hang out.

So on the Single Asians front, the inexpensive family style Chinese restaurants, the Thai BBQ places, the Hawaiian BBQ restaurants, and the good Japanese sushi restaurants.

Even the Venture Capital backed start up restaurants like P.F. Chang’s appeal to both the anglo men and women singles while simultaneously appealing the various Asian ethnic backgrounds.

Contemplate the physical locations where your TIP dates might be eating and hanging out, and do go ahead and position yourself THERE on a regular basis.

Do avoid the giant international chains, in general, because the quality of your connection will be diminished.

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

Las Vegas Baby Boomer Dating Expert

{ 11 comments… add one }
  • Dennis Miedema March 29, 2010, 11:50 PM

    Hey April, it’s Dennis here and I agree with you on location being important. And the law of large numbers as you call it, is important as well.

    Regards, Dennis Miedema.

  • Anthony Lemme March 31, 2010, 8:03 PM

    If you are putting yourself out there to be seen, then put yourself somewhere you’d want to be seen! My lovely other is Cuban so I will say that Latinas curl my toes!


  • Tim Van Milligan April 1, 2010, 6:24 AM

    I agree with you April. Go to the places where there is a higher chances of success. But in the same sentence, you shouldn’t go to a place where you have no interest in the general topic of the gathering just because it has a lot of people. For example, if you don’t like pro-wrestling, don’t go to a match just to meet guys. If you meet Mr. Right there, you’ll be forever watching pro-wrestling for the rest of your life.

  • Dewayne Chriswell April 1, 2010, 9:39 PM

    Thanks April, keep the dating tips coming. I need all the advice I can get.


  • Michael D Walker April 3, 2010, 9:17 PM

    Hi April,

    What a great post with very easy to take action!

    Way too often we get stuck in our routines and go to the same places
    simply because they are in our neighborhood or an easy stop on the way home from work.

    This was a great reminder to go to the places where your ideal date is likely to be found.

    Nicely done!


  • alam ghafoor April 8, 2010, 3:27 AM

    Know your TIP ….and where best to meet them…..April this article reminds me of a single mother that I coached years ago…she was complaining that she wanted to meet a nice guy who was into art and theatre and all things cultural….she hallucinated the qualities this guy would have ….etc.I asked her how often do you go to art galleries,exhibitions or the theatre…her reply never.!!…..enuff said.People listen up to what April tells ya….

  • Darryl Pace April 21, 2010, 3:34 PM


    Sage advice for those on the hunt. You’re an awesome dating resource!

    Take care.

    Health, Fitness for Working People — Darryl Pace

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