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How to Get the Guy to Stop Messaging and Ask the Woman Out on a First Date: Lob the LEAD WEIGHTED HANDKERCHIEF FEMININE Dating Advice for Women

How to Get the Guy to Stop Messaging and Ask the Woman Out on a First Date: Lob the LEAD WEIGHTED HANDKERCHIEF
Feminine Dating Advice for Women

How Can A Woman Be Feminine in Getting a Guy to Stop Texting and Ask for the Date?

I hear this question all the time at my dating workshops and in email questions from single women. “April, how can I get the guy to stop messaging me and actually ask me for a date? What am I doing wrong? I don’t want to be too critical with him and turn him off. I just want to get to meeting him sometime this month. Is there something I can do?

Secondarily, a lot of modern women who are successful in business and have amazing professional lives. We’re been reading and learning about expressing a feminine energy and side of ourselves which is genuine for romance, the softer side of us than we often put forth in our careers.

Same Energy Like 2 Magnets Cannot Click

Ever since The Rules and Getting to I Do, we know expressing our feminine energy is literally magnetically attractive to men. And then when we run the same energy as they in romance as we do in in business, our “masculine” or Yang Energy, that it’s like two magnets against each other. They cannot connect because they are the very same energy.

Here in at a Women’s Conference in the San Francisco Bay Area by the San Francisco Airport in Burlingame, April demonstrates one of her signature moves demonstrating ways women can express being feminine in online dating and still get the ball rolling to move to a First Date. Ladies, we are being feminine and proactive, not passive wall flowers, waiting and hoping he’ll just magically know we’re ready and receptive to his overtures to ask for a First Date.

Guys, there are always a few smart single men who sagely bop into the posts which I cite as Dating Advice for Marriage Minded Women so they can better understand what can sometimes feel like that alien species, the opposite sex – women, what are we thinking?

Especially over at my YouTube channel, I get men chiming into the comments at the Dating Advice for Women videos (a lot of my advice and content is relevant for both single men and women), “April, men need to learn this, too.” Indeed, because it’s only the unsophisticated who have never done any Personal Growth and Personal Development work who expect their partner to be able to read their minds. Ladies, no, just because he loves you does not mean he should be able to read your mind. I hear it again and again and again, women kvetching about how, “If he really loved me, he’d know. He should know me by now.” That is a completely unrealistic expectation that no man, however wonderful, can live up to. Don’t get into that behavior now while dating, ok?

So they can tell what she means when does this sort of move in online dating. “Oh! Hey! She’s telling me softly and clearly that’s she wants me to ask her out! Hey! She’s flirting signaling to me she’d probably say YES if I asked her on a date. I wonder what’s she doing this Thursday…?”

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