Los Angeles Singles Dating Scene: Keep Your Eye On the Ball, Participate in Sports Groups
SoCal Singles Dating Scene: Keep Your Eye On the Ball, Participating in Athletic Activities Groups
Keep Your Eye on the Ball While You Check Out the Guy or Get the Gal
Whether or not you are one of the many singles living in the Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego and surrounding SoCal counties or you’re single and living outside of Southern California, when you’re looking for lasting love, do remember to Keep Your Eye on the Ball.
Of course, during Stanley Cup season, that translates to, Keep Your Eye on the Puck!
One of the many places where singles are casually and comfortably meeting, mingling, and flirting is through participating in a Singles Sports League or Singles Athletic Activity Group of some kind. Whether you are Single and Baptist and play a casual game of Volleyball at the local Baptist High School’s gymnasium on a Friday night once a month or an LDS Christian Single mid-singles adult and join the casual gathering for a last Friday of the month pick-up (who shows up, not PUA terms, thank you) basketball or volleyball game. If you’re single, do keep in mind that playing sports informally is still a great leisure past-time that keeps you fit and healthy and just might lead to lasting love.
Your fellow singles who are interested in fitness, becoming more fit, or simply want to embrace leading an active lifestyle are more likely to be playing a sports game in a Singles Athletic Activities Group than they are to be home couch potatoing on the sofa in the living room!
Whatever metropolitan area that you live in, do look around online and ask your vanpool buds about what are some of the fun singles intermural sports groups you could participate in. It could be a coed league playing softball in the Spring and segue to Soccer (aka Football in the EU), Flag Football, Basketball, Skiing, Tennis, Volleyball. The more that the sport is a team sports option, the better opportunity it offers you to pursue an athletic endeavor as an amateur, enjoy a little competitive spirit while informally meeting other singles and naturally interacting with them.
The very pursuit of the sport gives you the reason for interaction without it feeling like a high pressure meat market.
Plus the playing and shared interest of the athletic endeavors provides you with plenty of safe small talk, break the ice, conversation starters and reasons to continue conversing together, all in a low pressure social situation.
Some of the Singles Sports leagues require membership dues. Typically the groups membership fees are pretty reasonable and goes towards paying for referees, lines men, and sports space rentals.
Many of the singles social sports groups will then meet up after the playing of the games to go grab a casual bite to eat together at a local coffee shop or pizza restaurant.
Some of the groups are offshoots of your corporate employers employees playing other employees of another company or industry. Those teams are typically mixed of both married folks and singles and can often foster a very comfortable environment for singles just re-entering the dating social sphere looking to date again after divorce in very low-pressure ways and just practice playful flirting. You can always simply flirt with others who are at the post-game pizza joint without worrying that you will ever see them again. It’s all in good clean fun!
Be sure to attend and bring a friend and make some new ones!
Happy Dating and Relationships!
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As seen in “In Touch Weekly” and in Dating for Dummies, 3rd Edition
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