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Dating With Integrity Online: Internet Dating Expert Warns, Single Women May Shrink The Truth

When you’re a single man searching the online dating profiles at your favorite singles internet dating site, just as it seems like from reading all the internet personals ads profiles that all the single guys are tall and over 6 feet tall, so at first glance all the single women are short or petite.  According to leading internet dating site OkCupid their study shows women are shrinking the truth in response to single men’s desire to date single women who are shorter than the single guys are.


Internet Dating Profiles Truths: Tall Women Off of Search Radar

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What is the problem?  The issue for tall single women looking for love online is that a lot of the love seeking single men set their Dating Profile Search Criteria criteria based on height, just like you probably did in your Online Dating Site Saved Searches.


So if you are a single lady seeking love online and you are not only over 5 feet 9 (This is how tall supermodel and television show host of Bravo TV’s Project Runway Heidi Klum is) but perhaps you are as tall as 6 feet tall or even taller.

Internet Dating Profiles Truths:  Short Women Get More Emails Than Tall Women

According to OKCupid‘s study the single short women received 60 more contacts per annum than their taller single sister women counterparts.  What are you to do so that you show in the internet dating site searches of single men that all the guys are doing?


Essentially the majority of online dating single, seeking, and available men are just simply passing you by.  Your dating profile might be amazing, but you are simply not on their dating search radar screen.


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And then oh yeah, hi heels.  When you show up on the First Date towering over them and wearing your fashionable hi heels, they will know in nano-seconds that you didn’t just fib a little in your online dating profile but that you overtly outright lied to them and were very specifically aiming to mislead them.


How will you ever get to a second date with overt lying in your Internet Matchmaking Dating Profile as the foundation for a relationship?  He might still buy you a drink, but it will be just 1 drink and he will be looking to turn around and leave, exit stage right, as soon as he possibly can.


The fact that you lied in your dating profile gives him grounds to behave like a cad and simply turn and leave as soon as he meets you.  When you avoid being short on lies and long on truth in your online dating profile, you may get fewer first dates, but you’ll increase your chances at attracting a serious relationship. Now that’s dating with integrity online!


Happy Dating and Relationships,



April Braswell

Internet Dating and Relationship Expert

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{ 16 comments… add one }
  • Cherie Miranda October 26, 2011, 8:34 PM

    How interesting. I had no idea short women received more interest than tall women on dating sites.

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  • Neil Dhawan October 26, 2011, 8:57 PM

    Great tip April … tall women may lose out on the shallow guys who have a certain criteria ( which makes me wonder, why is it that men want shorter women? ) but the tall gals can find a REAL relationship worthy man who is obviously more secure with himself … don’tcha think?

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  • Michael D Walker October 26, 2011, 10:42 PM

    I would’ve never guessed that shorter women get more email responses on dating sites than their taller counterparts.

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  • Clare Delaney October 26, 2011, 10:45 PM

    Great follow up to the Tall Men post April. How fascinating that short, petite women are viewed as more ideal in profiles! I was always pleased I was tall. And of course, the over-reaching point is so true, don’t lie in your profile!

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  • Rob Malone October 27, 2011, 1:14 AM

    Hi April,

    I had no idea that tall women had a disadvantage. I have always liked taller women but I have to admit that I did marry a short 5’2″ firecracker. So maybe I am attracted to shorter women as well.

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  • Sonya Lenzo October 27, 2011, 5:01 AM

    Too tall too short…this emphasis on the superficial is one of the woes of online dating, but you are SO right. Better to get fewer emails than to get shorter first dates and no second ones. I put my profile on ok cupid because I wanted to see how it worked. I got an email from them saying…”no matches- looseni up your searching criteria”. But I got one email from a very high quality guy. How many do you need? Better to be honest and narrow your range right from the begiining.
    Sonya Lenzo

  • Annie Born October 27, 2011, 5:54 AM

    Wow a lot of the men search on height criteria,
    Interesting… it’s just so much easier to tell the truth!
    I learn so much from your posts!
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  • Reading body language on a first date October 27, 2011, 12:49 PM

    April, do short women get all of the attention when it comes to dating becasue most of the guys online are short or is it because men tend to be attracted to short women?
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  • Body Language October 27, 2011, 1:10 PM

    Why is height such an important factor in online dating?

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  • Kevin Bettencourt October 27, 2011, 2:16 PM

    I’m starting to think a great internet dating profile should ban pictures unless a certain amount of personality match points are reached. Dating Profile Photos are out of date and lying in dating profiles seems rampant. OKCupid may want to consider this whether are a Vegas single homeowner or elsewhere.

  • Andrew Miner October 28, 2011, 2:25 AM

    It’s much better to just go with what ya got I guess. Once you meet in person, it’s all out in the open.


  • John Moulder October 28, 2011, 2:51 AM

    The tall / short story is unusual to me as well . Good post April .

  • Eva Palmer October 29, 2011, 4:22 PM

    I just love your phrase: when you avoid being short on lies and long on truth in your dating profile you will win in the long term…that’s a great advice. Why do you think men prefer women that are shorter than they?

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  • Dennis Perry October 29, 2011, 8:23 PM

    This is a very interesting post and exactly opposite of what I would have expected. I am not sure that I would really care that much either way. I think other traits are more valuable and important than height.


  • Kurt May 1, 2012, 1:57 PM

    I like tall woman, but I am realistic. I am 5’8.5″ tall and know that most women taller than me won’t be interested in me.

  • Marco October 11, 2012, 5:06 AM

    Interesting and good article! I, on another hand, am a male and I am short at 5′ 3″ and oh! I hardly get replies because I honestly put my height in profiles however, I believe women do not want short guys. Terrible! I am really disappointed. People online in those dating sites are so superfictional because they only wants appearance, height, weight, etc. I never really believe in online dating because all I got were bunch of too old women (I have gray hair since age 18), women who can not have babies (I like to have at least one of my very own!) meaning YOUNGER women (I am 48 next week!), and God knows what else why they do not like me. I also had a stalker from online. I still want to see there is someone through online is real and want to fall in love with me and then I will believe online dating is real. For right now, its all bunch of BS! Sorry for the language but it is true!

    Thank you for understanding.

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