How to Get a Christian Girlfriend or Boyfriend: Plan on a Cup of Coffee

by April Braswell on April 18, 2011

How to Get a Christian Girlfriend or Boyfriend: Plan on a Cup of Coffee

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What Single Christians Can Do for Getting a Christian Boyfriend or Girlfriend: Drinking Coffee Together

Continuing in my Lent series before Easter Single Christian / Catholic Dating Tips, I’d like to give both single women and single men an extra nudge so when you do make all that effort to locate other area churches, alternative services, and Adult Study groups that you then make the most of your time.


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Single Christians Fellowshipping over Coffee

Single Christians Seeking Christian Marriage-Minded Relationship: Don’t Drop the Ball Halfway Through Execution

So often single men and single women will attend a singles workshop with me, buy an audio product or mine, or hire me to coach them.  And then will take the series of action steps advised as part of their strategy to get a boyfriend or get a girlfriend fast.


Only they will fall short at about the half way mark.


Single Christians Seeking Christian Marriage-Minded Relationship: Ways in Which Singles Dating Is Like Selling

That would like a sales person showing up for a sales call dressed shabbily, thinking their personal grooming doesn’t matter “if they really like me”, over-talking,  staying too long for the first appointment, and leaving your materials at home.  You’re setting yourself up for failure, risking your heart.  And then you don’t understand what happened, why “it” didn’t work for you.


Often when this does happen, what I will hear about during the singles workshop breaks and one-on-one Personal Dating Coaching calls are those personal confessions of worrying about “What’s wrong with me?” The singles secretly confess that they worry that, “I must just not be attractive….”


There is nothing wrong with you!  You can’t help it.  You just didn’t know….


However there is something wrong with WHAT you are doing!


Single Christians Seeking Christian Marriage-Minded Relationship: Finding a Boyfriend or Girlfriend Does Include Your Character

Getting a girlfriend or getting a boyfriend is always a combination of factors.  Yeah, it helps to be good looking, but that won’t last past about 3 dates if you’re not also a good person. Your Christian Character, personality, and temperament do matter.  Character is a significant factor to attracting lasting love and building a marriage-minded relationship.


Single Christians Seeking Christian Marriage-Minded Relationship: What You Really Do Need to Do While Dating

When you’re a single Christian / Catholic guy or gal and you’re looking for love, you do need to….


  • Dress Attractively (leave the super tight clothes or plunging necklines at home)
  • Speak Graciously with Others (more people are listening to you than you realize)
  • Treat Others Kindly (trust me, we’re all watching you)
  • Get Proactive in Meeting Other Christian / Catholic Singles (if it’s “meant to be” it won’t just happen, don’t be 100% passive, it requires your actions)


And when you show up, be prepared to segue to a casual social interaction afterwards.  This week (Holy Week/Passion Week) especially, many Christians / Catholics will be attending a variety of services.  Many of them will be singles who only attend a few services a year.  If you ever want to meet, socialize with, or potentially date any of them again, you must strike while the iron is hot this week because otherwise you might never see them again.


Single Christians Seeking Christian Marriage-Minded Relationship: Do Make Your Move

Talk to them and break the ice. Man or woman, don’t just wait hoping the other will approach you.


Single Christians Seeking Christian Marriage-Minded Relationship: Do Open Your Mouth

Be gracious.  Ask questions about if they attend services here regularly or if it’s elsewhere.


Single Christians Seeking Christian Marriage-Minded Relationship: Do Segue to Socialize

Be sure to invite them to coffee with you and some other people.   “A few of us are going out for a cup of coffee afterwards.  It would great if you would join us.” Be sure they understand where the coffee house is.  Make sure they have directions.  Offer shared rides to ensure new people get there.  And also offer them your personal card with the note of the name of the coffee house and address location on the back.  This way, yes, they have your contact number.  And feel free at that point to ask for their card as well.  Because you gave them your card, you have established safety and security for their sharing personal contact information with you which many people are more loathe to do with so little privacy online.


If you don’t invite them for coffee and exchange contact information, you did practice your socializing and branching out habits.  However, you might find in 3 weeks of concerted effort that nothing has happened for you whatsoever.  But when you do make an effort and arrive prepared, you will be dating, mingling, and mixing it with your future girlfriend or boyfriend asap.


Happy Dating and Relationship,


April Braswell


Other Relevant Singles Dating Advice Articles:

Singles Success Tip: Carry a Personal Card with You Always

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