A question I repeatedly receive via email and on radio shows is from the single guys who are 18,19, and 20 years old who are too young to go to the cool local singles bar scene and yet they have already graduated from high school and aren’t hanging with the girls their own age. These single Millenial generation guys are looking for tips for where to meet the hot chicks, aka pretty gurls.
When you are that age, bars are certainly not your best friend. When you’re young, you generally haven’t learned how to handle your alcohol, and will often be diminished should you manage to pick someone up for a one night stand. Or worse, like the movie, “Knocked Up,” you will manage to function just fine in bed and live to regret the results anyway
All the better to look for other locations for meeting and flirting with the opposite sex.
When you are eighteen or nineteen and you’re not headed off to a Four Year college or university program, that is totally cool. You might be more of a kineasthetic learner who learns best by “show me and now let me do” as your learning modality. That is perfectly fine. Not everyone’s professional career path is nurtured and enhanced by spending 4 years at college. Even while you are not attending Harvard University this quarter, you can still leverage the Law of Large numbers and take a weekend seminar, a one night adult learning workshop, or even 1 single 13 week class at your local community college and meet lots of young women around your age. While you are on campus, bopping in from you day job, be sure to invest as much time as possible on campus at the local snack or dining area on campus where people congregate. You want to be sure to leverage the social hanging out time which is already made available to you there on campus.
Check over the next few days as I provide more tips for the 18-20 year olds for meeting each other outside of a singles bar.
Happy Dating and Relationships,