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Expert Dating Tip: Lunchtime Leverage the Law of Large Numbers to Meet Other Singles This Holiday Season

Expert Dating Tip: Lunchtime Leverage the Law of Large Numbers to Meet Other Singles This Holiday Season

As a Dating Expert, indeed, I remind singles that it just takes 1 right person for you to find your Soul Mate to encourage them to attend even small attendance events.  However, you do want to go ahead and leverage The Law of Large Numbers this Holiday Season to get out in front of large numbers of people.

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Here is it already mid-week in the first full week of December 2009, and the Holiday Shopping is under full swing.  Admittedly, with the present economy, people are not shopping as much nor spending as much on their Holiday Shopping this year.  However, they are a lot of shopper out and about.  You want to place yourself to cross their paths.

Week Day Lunchtime:

The weekend, the shopping malls and major shopping districts of such marvelous metro areas like New York (aka Manhattan or New York City to th rest of the world) are a mad house and frankly overwhelming.  When the crowds are so massive and overwhelming, people’s brains shut down from the fatigue, and even if you are doing the happy wiggly dance in front of a Potential Date, they seriously may not even see you because their brain is so tired.  So, you kinda want to avoid those on the weekend.

However, Week Day Lunchtime, even a little on the early side of lunch, 11 am, 11:30 am, can be a great time to go grab lunch at a sandwich shop or deli near the shopping malls or even to venture into the Shopping Malls Food Courts.  They will be busy and filled with people, just there will be large quantities of people, not overwhelming crowds.

At the Restaurant:

Whoever is taking your order, be it a sit-down restaurant with a table server or cashier, smile, be charming, speak with them just a little, and even see how you can find some reason to sparkle with a moment of delightful laughter.

You are not striving to create a relationship with this person, nor annoy the others who are behind you in line waiting to place their order.

Your goal is demonstrate to those about you how charming and delightful a person you, to register on their radar screen, and to perhaps plant the seed for them to desire to converse with you.  Keep your interaction light and brief.  Certainly you can always ask for their input on how the Chicken Caesar Sandwich compares to the Chicken Caesar Salad.

As you follow and implement these dating tips this holiday season, you will certainly boost your social confidence and poise and meet more eligible singles, thus increasing your chances of attracting and meeting your Soul Mate.

Tomorrow I will provide more Singles Dating Tips on Romantic Body Language….

Until then…

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

Las Vegas Baby Boomer Dating Expert

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  • JJ Jalopy December 9, 2009, 2:32 PM

    I’m loving the alliteration!

    And the practical tips on how to be fabulous at all times! 🙂

  • April Braswell December 9, 2009, 3:20 PM

    Hi JJ,

    thank you for stopping by my blog and commenting. Giggling. Why yes there is that alliteration thing going on there, and I hadn’t even noticed. Thank you for pointing it out.

    April

  • Greg December 10, 2009, 5:30 PM

    Great tip! Speaking of tips- I don’t ever tip less than 20%, unless service was awful.

  • John Ho December 11, 2009, 4:09 AM

    Apeil,

    > Romantic Body Language….

    Now, we are getting SERIOUS :))

    The other type of Tiger Wood fans, watch out these clues to polish your skills!

    John Ho

  • Lynn Lane December 13, 2009, 8:08 AM

    April,

    What a nice way to create great odds of finding a Soul Mate. I was luck to find mine years ago. Great post.

    Lynn Lane Success Strategies For Life

  • Lisa McLellan December 13, 2009, 9:22 AM

    It’s a great idea to practice being warm and friendly so that when you do meet your soulmate, it will come easily and naturally!

    Lisa McLellan, Child Care Expert
    Babysitting Services, Babysitting Tips, Babysitters, Nannies

  • Jose Escalante December 15, 2009, 1:18 PM

    Hi April, it’s amazing to see how you develop a subtle yet powerful way to connect with other this holiday season.

    Jose Escalante

  • Martin December 18, 2009, 8:14 AM

    Hi April

    Great dating tips…

    I love the idea of “demonstrating to those about you how charming and delightful a person you are” – not just because you’re after a date, but just because!!

    Martin Wright
    Impact, Poise, Presenting

  • Martin O'Connor December 24, 2009, 7:37 AM

    Merry Christmas April.

    Marty

  • Eva Palmer April 21, 2011, 2:49 PM

    Hi April, plus shopping at Christmas time a fun activity to do with friends in Spain.

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