OK, so Father’s Day 2009 has already come and gone, unless you live down under in Australia as Australia’s Leading Numerology Expert, John Ho, tells me. Apparently in Australia, they celebrate Father’s Day in September. So you still have that Meat Festivity to look forward to!
For the singles who follow me here at my Dating and Relationship Coach Tips blog, we are officially in Summertime 2009 here in The States. This means there are a lot more people simply out and about during the day whom you can meet offline and in person “just by chance.” Be sure to stack the odds in your favor and increase your chances of meeting your Soul Mate by not only using a great online dating profile, but also by being out and about in person to have a full self-marketing strategy in place. A lot of people have a few of the bits and pieces, great tactics they are doing. But they don’t have a full marketing blueprint, a strategy which they are implementing, massively.
Here in Southern California, in Orange County, I am by the beaches of Newport Beach (yes, it IS a gorgeous area, thank-you). Yes, it’s cooler here than in Las Vegas (I’ll be back again in a few weeks!). Leverage that to your advantage! A simple activity you can do is to dress casually and attractively (OK ladies, this is one of the few times I will advise to leave the 3 inch heels at home… take note!), and go for a walk EACH NIGHT along the board walk area. If you have a downtown area like Palmer Square in Princeton, NJ near where I grew up, go there. Stroll. Just nod your head and smile at just about EVERYONE who passes you. You might even find yourself uttering some gracious pleasantries, “Good evening,” or “Lovely evening.”
Do this.
You will meet more NEW people. And yes, some of them will be single. Anyone with a dog, THAT is your safe conversation starter. Stop. Admire the dog. Ask to pet the dog. “Oh, what breed? How old? What is your dog’s name? What a handsome dog.”
Happy Dating and Relationships!
April Braswell
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Damn right April!
You’ll never be lonely for long if you have a dog!
Meeting people is always fun when we keep it light.
Can we come hang with you in the O.C. for a while please? Can we? Can we? Can we?
Oh, gotta dash. Late for my botox appointment….
JJ
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April,
I like warmer weather better. So I prefer spring & summer over autumn & winter.
But apparently, if we start a serious relationship in winter, it’s a better success rate than one starts in summer!! Interesting.
John Ho
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April,
I used to love to hang out in the summer time. This is definitely the time to be out and about, meeting people.
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Hi Darryl,
thanks for stopping by. I hope you enjoyed a wonderful time with your family and extended family on Father’s Day. Here in Orange County, we have the beach RIGHT nearby, so we are always simply bopping over there. In the South I know there are beautiful small bodies of water to stroll by (wear mosquito repellent!), and the lovely downtown areas to stroll along in the evenings. At least in the South when you smile and utter, “Hello” to a passing stranger they know well enough to smile and say, “Hi,” back. My niece (in-law) would do that in NorCal and would just laugh because her saying “Hello” would sort of startle them out of their isolated dazed state. Many would manage a “Hi” back. Spreading goodwill and charm everywhere she went!
Looking forward to more stories and public speaking from you, Mr. Pace!
best regards,
April
Hi John,
I always love romantic research and statistics. What is the study and source to which you are referring.
Well indeed, my own courtship (and it WAS a courtship, that man had a plan and a goal and told me within 2 weeks of dating!) with my late husband started in the Winter time.
Summer Romances are light and breezy.
Looking forward to hearing the source so I can add it to my arsenal of Cupid’s arrows!
best regards,
April
Hi April,
You make Orange County sound so nice! I only go there for my Disneyland visit every time im over in the USA, have been to Huntington Beach though….nice
Duane
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It’s nice to escape the heat of Las Vegas and enjoy the pleasures of the beach in the summer time. Funny, I’m writing this as I sit in a hotel in Newport Beach.
Steve Chambers, The Sales Expert
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It such a wonderful time of year to meet people face to face for sure. We have many outdoor festivals and events where I live so there is always a means to get out and meet people.
Anthony
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I would love to go for a walk IF IT WOULD JUST STOP RAINING!!!! This is ridiculous! It has rained almost every day since the beginning of June. I’m still white as a ghost. I’ve only been to the beach twice and once I sat there fully clothed and I was freezing! Please send some of that Las Vegas sunshine over to the east coast! We must’ve broken some records by now. When I babysit, I can’t even take the kids to the playground or for a walk because of the weather.
By the way, I’m sure you’ve got this one covered, but the playground on weekends are a great place to meet single dads. They usually have their kids every weekend or every other weekend so they are often found at the playgrounds because their bachelor pads aren’t much fun for kids
Lisa McLellan
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