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Welcome to April Braswell's Dating
and Relationship Coach website for building the Romantic
Relationship of Your Dreams
by Kevin Hogan
and Dave
Lakhani
I am
delighted to
offer fun Amazon promo bonuses
when you buy the book on September 9 at
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For
everyone who buys a book at amazon and returns a receipt to our
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go to
Kevin Hogan on
September 9 for details!
SEPTEMBER IS HERE! To SPICE Up
Your Dating Life, I've Added a
New
Internet Dating Sites Resource
List!
Can you believe it? It's Yup, it's
already September and a new week is starting?! So,
how's your romance going? Oh? Don't have one going
on? Do you have a romantic sex relationship going on in your
life or do you need to get a few more things going to get things
GOING ON?
How is your romantic love life? And
remember, it is MARRIED people who have the most sex. Not
married yet? Be sure to head out and place yourself
where you will MEET lots of new people - like a breakfast
joint! Take a look at the Internet
Dating Sites Resource Guide and get out there.
Have you already been reading my easy dating
tips blog over at VOX and have some dates already lined up this
weekend. No? No dates. Don't have any dates
yet? Do you have any prospective dates in your
dating
pipeline? If not, read through
my free
dating articles on getting more dates and be sure to check
out my Easy Dating Tips blog at Vox. If you don't have any
date lined up, that is perfectly ok. You can still fill up
your weekend with activities where you will increase your
chances to meet others and more singles like you. Get
ready and be sure to get out there and have
FUN!
If you DO have a date, LUCKY YOU!
Congratulations. But what about how to behave on a great
date, how to body flirt
and be irresistibly
attractive the opposite sex. Well, be sure to check out my
latest free dating articles about male and female body language for
dates!
A number of men and women
approach me to be their dating coach, and after emailing and
talking with me, they slowly reveal one of their deepest fears,
"April, what is WRONG with me that I am not already matched up and
mated?" They have watched all the TV shows and Hollywood
movies where the early 30 somethings with perfect skin meet and
become a couple 3.2 days. In reality, being
irresistibly attractive
the opposite sex takes
some effort - both externally and internally. We DO need
to make efforts to look OUR best so work on our
personal image. And we need to do some
internal work. STOP! WAIT! I can already
feel all the men tensing up and wanting to exit the page rather
than have to TALK to some stranger about these things. NO
WORRIES! Part of my uniqueness as a Dating Coach and
Relationship Coach is that I really understand AND
appreciate men as they are. I am NOT sending you to a
therapist where you have to reveal your darkest secrets (eek!)
to a complete stranger. Instead, I have some books I
recommend you take a look at - whether you are
SINGLE-Never Married or Divorced. Just bop on over to
this Reading List and take a look at these excellent books
to get you started. It's like warming up for your dating
workout! Preparing for Love
Reading List. Check it out and get ready for more
love, romantic sex, and
better dates!
I've
added some truly fabulous singles dating resources
for singles in the San Francisco Bay
Area. Do be sure to check them out.
Yes,
Summer 2008 is officially here! So, Summer Vacation is
starting all across North America. Quite a number of you have
written me wondering what to take with you for your Summer
Vacation, or Holiday as they say in the EU, what romance coaching
and dating books for singles I would recommend you read. I
just published my Romance Coach's Summer Reading List
here. Enjoy! It's good for men and for
women. You can read these on public transit or on the
beach. And, yes, please do remember to take your
#35 sunscreen with you, OK? Have fun and remember to
FLIRT!
Additionally in
response to a number of men begging me for more ideas about How to
Meet More Women and to succeed with them romantically, I've added
some books especially targeted to men at
my Promoting Manliness section. Enjoy and go get
'em!
Our founder,
April Braswell, is a leading expert Romance Coach
and Online Dating Coach,
providing Easy
Dating
Tips and
Relationship Coach services. Her work as a Romance
Coach and Online Dating Coach started out with her own story of
romantic love.
Ladies, most of
us grew up with dreams of romantic love, a knight
in shining armor, reading beautiful fairy tales with gallant
heros. We dreamt of looking stunningly beautiful in our
bridal gown and getting married. Well, April
did, too. However, she was gloriously happily married
at 36.
And then
at 37 became a widow.
Heartbreaking, isn't it?
Tragic.
Can you relate to
tragedy and sadness in your life on some level? How is
your life like that? Are all of your single
friends marrying off, leaving you in the
dust?
And
without those attractive single friends, aren't you finding it
harder and harder to meet really great
singles?
Feeling lonely in your
heart of hearts every weekend?
"Single
never married" Don't you just hate that classification in
the Online Dating sites?
Failed
marriage? Oh, I mean
"Divorced".
But isn't that how
you're feeling on some
level?
"Failure"
"Rejected"
And now, you've
lifted your head and are looking for love online. You're
hoping, maybe against all hopes, that there really is someone out
there for you. You're wondering in your hear of hearts,
"April, Dare I hope? Is there someone out there for
ME?"
Sweetheart, I am
here to tell you, "It is not your fault!" It is not
your fault that you are not already married. It is
not your fault that you haven't already found someone perfect for
you. But as your Romance Coach, I can tell you, there is
hope, you can do something about it, and it's easy
to do. But you, like all of us, will need help implementing
these easy steps along the simple path to finding love.
That's where I step in as your Romance Coach and Online Dating
Coach.
As a widow herself,
April has successfully navigated the romance and dating game to the
altar, worked on a successful marriage and all that a great
romantic relationship entails, and now is herself back in the
dating game in the 21st century. With her compassionate,
humorous and sometimes audacious approach she encourages and
inspires her clients to be their best selves and find love with her
as their Romance Coach.
As you sit at
your computer, reading through her numerous expert online dating
and online personals dating advise and Free Dating Articles, yes, ALL
of those articles over there on the left, you will learn why her
client list includes international clientele who rely on her
audacious approach, warmth, humor, and relationship expertise to
increase their number of dates and improve their romantic
relationships. While audacious, she is always discrete and
maintains utter confidentiality for her
clientele.
On the internet personals and online dating scene since the
early days in 1997, be sure to check out the new
Internet Dating Sites Resource
Guide.
Her
expertise includes:
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Relationship
and Dating Preparation
Coaching
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Marketing Yourself to
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Part of my uniqueness
which I bring to my dating and relationship coaching as a Romance
Coach with my clients is that I am a widow. I am not
divorced. I have LIVED THROUGH the actual concept to which we
vow, "Til Death Do Us Part." Death parted us. I have
LIVED OUT commitment.
Most of my
clients are divorced. Please don't think
that I am not compassionate about that as your Romance Coach.
Indeed, there are absolutely excellent and necessary reasons for
divorce. Just having done so, they are
wounded.
They feel a bit
rejected fundamentally as a woman.... as a man. Their sense
of self-knowledge is out of whack. They often don't feel
inside truly attractive and desirable. When they come to me
to ask me to be their Romance Coach, I help them to see that in
themselves and to express their best selves to the world so they
are attracting great partners for THEM. Not what the world
may be prescribing to them. And oh my Lord,
let's have some FUN
along the
way, OK? And remember to PLAY and
BE SAFE
online as you pursue your quest for love with
Online Dating Coaching looking to meet your
Soul Mate.
Often there is
this little fear inside, those little voices of,
"
Maybe he is lying!" and "Don't
TRUST!" unto the point of marriage commitment. Or
"don't SACRIFICE!" for the other. What is the point of a
relationship if we do not get to enjoy the priviledge of mutually
sacrificing for each other over time? Those are the
relationships which stay only superficial, when most of us yearn
and long for one for whom we can sacrifice, a love which enobles
us. Daily life means things get pedantic. There is
laundry to be done and toilet bowls to be washed. But when we
have sacrificed for each other, truly given to them, then we have
experienced true intimacy and communion with the Divine.
Indeed, we have LIVED. Isn't that what you want,
afterall? Isn't that part of what you are hoping for in
marriage? Dreaming for? Yearning for when you
marry?
Part of the joy of
actually DATING is to explore different aspects of ourselves.
Try new things and explore and express that part of yourself.
Are you a strong athlete? Excellent! How about going to
the Opera once or twice? A happy book worm?
Superb! Let's go on a 3 hour hike!
And to EVERYONE I
recommend, GO DANCING! I'll expand on that later. Just
keep coming back. I make a point to update the content here
just about daily.
Are you staying
abreast of the times in Dating in the 21st century? Do you
have an Online Dating Profile (or 2 or 3) posted at Internet Dating
sites? Have you tried Speed Dating? Have you even heard of
Speed Dating? If you haven't tried Speed Dating, I
really do have to recommend you try it out.
Dave Lakhani, April Braswell, and Gary
May at Kevin Hogan's 2008 Influence Boot Camp at the
Luxor in Las Vegas, NV.
Yes, that is the wonderful SELLING! book which
Dave and Gary collaborated upon in conjunction with
Elliot Hoppe and Mollie Marti which Dr. Kevin
Hogan edited.
Want to learn the
Secrets to Hypnotically Attract Men?
So! What Is in YOUR Dating Calendar This
Week?
Do you have 3 or 4 dates? Or do
you need to learn more ways to
Get More Dates with
Men? I'm talking
about having at least a Friday and a Saturday night date. You
might also have a Sunday evening or brunch date as well as at least
1 weeknight date.
If you don't yet have
that,
what are you DOING this very week
actively to MEET MORE MEN?
Have you gotten online yet with
different
Online Dating
Sites?
Are you talking with the people in front
of you and behind you at Starbucks?
When you are at Barnes & Noble at
lunchtime, did you find some way to have a 3 sentence conversation
with the other people there?
And when you were at B&N, did you
just stay in the ROMANCE and PERSONAL GROWTH sections? Or did
you to "Where The Boys Are...." over in BUSINESS and
TECHNOLOGY?
On Wednesday night, have you been
stopping by to eat din dins at places where divorced dads are
likely to take their children? (Family Style Chinese
Restaurants and Pizza Joints rank high here.)
Thursday evening, are you getting
together with some of your GFs? Singles and marrieds.
Thursday evening is GREAT for a Girls' Night Out! And
you'll want to intersperse that with attending some business
networking events, too, which are always chock full of
men!
OK folks, it's FRIDAY NIGHT?
Do you have a date?
Are you getting out
tonight?
If you don't have a date, by all means,
GET OUT THERE!
Go to a singles
event.
Go to the Bar - hey, Friday night Happy
Hour is a FUN thing!
Go to a HOCKEY GAME!
Well, Stanley Cup is over, so no Hockey (no crying, please, I
feel your pain.) until
September.
Or if you prefer, you could go to a
BASEBALL GAME. C'est ok avec moi. To each his
own. Just GET OUT.
If you just go to the movies on Friday
night, sigh, you'll be in the dark sitting ALONE with
strangers with whom you are NOT interacting for 2 hours. If
you MUST go to the movies, you have to interact with the people in
line near you. Otherwise, go on a week
night.
Sensational
Saturday!
YES, tonight
IS (drum roll please....) DATE NIGHT! Do you have
one?
If your answer
is NO, WHAT ACTIONS ARE YOU TAKING to DO SOMETHING ABOUT
THAT FOR NEXT WEEK?
Yes, you will
see I am ALL about TAKE action. This is not "The
Secret." "I'll just ask the Universe for the relationship I
want and it will come to me." PLEASE DO pray for what
you want. Ask the Lord God for the relationship you
want. Journal about it. Write it out. Write out
some of what you DON'T want and then recraft that into a
positive statement of what you DO want. All of that will help
you FIND it. However, you also MUST GET OUT THERE
to find it.
Who are your
Relationship Role Models? Be sure you know and regularly
interact with a number of happily married couples of all
ages. I find it invaluable to interview and learn from the
happily married for what they are doing to contribute to their
strength and longevity of their relationships, don't
you?
In Philadelphia
in early May at Image Weekend, I presented on
Dating to Create the Relationship You
Want.
April Braswell,
Dating Coach, at the Airport Hilton,
Philadelphia, PA, with
new friend, Debbie Shetzler.
Eliot Hoppe, Canada's leading Body Language
Expert, April Braswell, Karl, at the Philadelphia Airport
Hilton.
Steve Chambers, April
Braswell, Karl, at the Philadelphia Airport
Hilton.
Michael, April Braswell, and Nick
Cole.
Sonya Lenzo, who makes Business Insurance
EASY TO UNDERSTAND,
Fitness Mave, Sabrina Peterson, and April
Braswell, Romance Coach.
Sabrina Peterson, Sheridan
Randolph, Concert Violist and CopyWriting
WunderKind, and April Braswell at the Philadelphia Airport
Hilton. James Bond, eat your heart out!
April Braswell, Brent Detering, and New York
Times best-selling author, Larina Kase.
Dr. Michael Roth is a LUCKY and happy man, n'est
pas?
Jennifer Skinner, Wardrobe and Style
Consultant,
and April Braswell, Romance Coach, assist Dr.
Roth in looking his
best for a public speaking engagement at
the Philadelphia Airport Hilton.
To contact April
Braswell to be your Romance Coach for her expert dating,
Online Personals, and Romantic Relationship coaching, just
book a package through her Online Store.
She will be in touch via email to schedule coaching times with
you.
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